By Anonymous - 17/12/2009 12:49 - United States

Today, my sister-in-law told me calmly that she never cared for me, likes her brother's ex more than me, and probably will always dislike me. It was our first serious conversation ever, that I initiated because I wanted to "maintain our great friendship." FML
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Same thing different taste

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SillyPoop 0

Eh, I like the honesty with this one people should be more honest...it would save a lot of wasted time on asshole people.

It's too bad she hates you, but at least she was honest about it. Better she tells it to you straight up than lie to your face about how much she likes you.

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Ski_flyir 0

At first, I didn't realize the "In-law" part so I was like omg! She's such an A-hole!

You can appreciate her honesty and still be polite. She probably has some screwy, hateful hang-ups which are all her problem. Don't let them become yours. Best wishes for you.

Well, can't be loved by everyone, right? If they don't like you, then screw them, there are more people in this world to be great friends with and they don't have to be related to you. I personally think relatives are harder to get along with = .=;;

Well, can't be loved by everyone, right? If they don't like you, then screw them, there are more people in this world to be great friends with and they don't have to be related to you. I personally think relatives are harder to get along with = .=;;

schwinn11 0

You have two choices 1. Accept the fact that she don't like you 2. Quit being such a nagging bitch

This feels lousy, but I have actually been in a position similar to your sister-in-law's! I dislike my husband's younger brother intensely, and his ex-wife more. Instead of just backing off and being cordial, like I tried to do with them, they kept trying to push friendship on me: personal questions, constantly invading my space, acting like I was their personal servant and our home was a free hotel... All this was years ago, and my husband finally saw what I was talking about and starting easing himself away from them. I hope you'll accept that you'll never be close. If she's angry enough to come out and say something like that to you, you've probably totally offended her without necessarily knowing it. IMO the WTG would be to back off, be courteous and nothing more, and take what she has to say seriously.

Don't worry about it. All in-laws generally suck.