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If everything else fails, try the truth.
the fact that it's Father's Day weekend does not help.
I feel for you, recently had to have a similar conversation with my son.
I cant beleive how people drop their kids like that I don't get it
Men.
Anybody who has a kid and then abandons them did so because they are willing or able to be a parent. Being a "man" has little to do with it, especially since it sounds like in this case the problem is that the bloke doesn't want to be an adult.
Best thing to do is to tell him that you don't know when or if he will see his father again, because his father doesn't want to be one. That it's nothing to do with anything he did or is, but that it was his father who was bad. Lying, through words or omission, really won't do him any good in the long term.
The god damn truth.
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I'm sorry OP. This happened to me when I was younger and I never understood it. It gets easier for the kid with time, but LOTS of it. just know your ex is kind of a piece of shit for leaving you and your kid and not bothering to be a parent to his own son.
That's got to be hard, your child will figure it out on their own one day... There are no words, to say to comfort him, just reassure him you will never leave... It gets easier with time..