By Anonymous - 18/06/2016 16:16 - United States - Bell

Today, my son was crying because he wanted his daddy, and he asked when he can see him. I had no idea what to say, given his dad left us in the middle of the night last year, now lives in another country, and told me he never wants to see us again. FML
I agree, your life sucks 18 118
You deserved it 1 668

Same thing different taste

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I'm sorry OP. This happened to me when I was younger and I never understood it. It gets easier for the kid with time, but LOTS of it. just know your ex is kind of a piece of shit for leaving you and your kid and not bothering to be a parent to his own son.

That's got to be hard, your child will figure it out on their own one day... There are no words, to say to comfort him, just reassure him you will never leave... It gets easier with time..

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If everything else fails, try the truth.

the fact that it's Father's Day weekend does not help.

I feel for you, recently had to have a similar conversation with my son.

grogers311 20

Wow - as a dad, this completely breaks my heart!

I cant beleive how people drop their kids like that I don't get it

ezrajab 22

Damn. Sorry op. That's terribly sad

Anybody who has a kid and then abandons them did so because they are willing or able to be a parent. Being a "man" has little to do with it, especially since it sounds like in this case the problem is that the bloke doesn't want to be an adult.

Best thing to do is to tell him that you don't know when or if he will see his father again, because his father doesn't want to be one. That it's nothing to do with anything he did or is, but that it was his father who was bad. Lying, through words or omission, really won't do him any good in the long term.

LAURA_EL_JUICE 6

He has to know sometime. You dont have to give him all the details at once.