By Anonymous - 20/02/2016 12:53 - United Kingdom - Mitcham

Today, my wife got fired for leaving work early once again. She's been doing random "spot checks" for the past month, convinced that she'll catch me cheating on her. This paranoid crap is exactly why I'm filing for divorce. FML
I agree, your life sucks 25 791
You deserved it 2 233

Same thing different taste

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Wow. She has trust issues. Sorry it had to resort to divorce

Thats some crazy shit there man but good for you with the divorce

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Bonngoo 34

What ticked her off? There has to be a reason that she's doing them.

Not always. A lot of the time it's because the person who is acting jealous is actually being unfaithful or considering being unfaithful and so starts getting this thought into their head that if they're cheating then their partner must be too

I don't think you should get a divorce because what she is doing shows that she loves you. You should talk to her and convince her you aren't cheating on her, if you like, tell her if this continues then it will lead to a divorce, but what she is doing just means that she cares for you so much she doesn't want to lose you.

Loosing your job over crazy stalking doesn't show love in my opinion, it only shows you are a crazy stalker. I am sure they talked about it and apparently the wife already did several "spot checks" and never found her cheating. So if talking doesn't convince you and reality doesn't convince you, what else is there to do...

You never stalk anyone out of love, you stalk them because there's something wrong with you. clearly her wife has lost the rational love part and gone over to a irrational thought train, and this marriage is done for.

No, no, no. This is not the behavior of a loving wife. This is the behavior of a ******* psychopath desperate to control another human being.

Stalking and controlling your spouse to the point of getting fired from your job is NOT love. It's emotionally abusive, irresponsible, and utterly psychotic.

I am sorry for you OP, you do what you need to do. She is obviously sick, so tell someone close to her, family or whatnot about it and hopefully they can help her so that she'll leave you alone once the divorce goes through.

scottishoatmeal 22

She deserved it. Good luck OP

If she can't trust you and goes as far as to leaving work early to "be sure", then you deserve better.

I've been in relationships like this, she came home early from business trips, switched flights and everything. She would get into fights with me about things she perceived were real for days at a time. Nothing I ever said or did was enough to put her at ease. I pulled the plug on the relationship. You can't fix that kind of crazy these people need serious help.

I'm sorry it had to end with divorce op.

I have been in your shoes, sorry OP. I'm in the middle of a divorce, and that's one of the main reasons too.

A few weeks later: Today, my cheating husband filed for divorce just weeks after I lost my job. I am now unemployed and alone and it's all his fault! FML. Haha ?