By maryrain - 11/08/2011 09:35 - United States
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I'm not saying that all midgets are disfigured. what I meant was that that particular person has an actual disfigured face. And yes, I do have a legitimate reason for my fear. I don't feel inclined to share that reason because then all of the people who already believe I was being an ass will still not agree with me. the last thing I wanted to do was hurt/insult her.
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It's not OP's fault she has a phobia! The whole definition of a phobic anxiety disorder is based on its irrationality -- and if OP's fear comes from some traumatic experience, she's not to blame for that either. Lose the ignorance. I'm sure nobody wishes this problem would go away more than she does. OP, is it possible for you to write this person a note and have someone give it to them? You might just tell them that you're sorry if they were hurt by what happened, explain that you have a phobia but are trying to resolve it, and say you hope they won't take this personally. Good luck. Given some time and work I know you'll be able to let go of this fear.
Your still a bitch though
OP- if someone brings it up again just say that you suffer from achondroplasiaphobia. Your in high school so chances are whoever is bothering you is going to have to go look it up and will realize that you are legitimately afraid of midgets. If they continue to bother you, don't worry about it because your in high school and jerks will always find something to pick on you about. Also, may want to consider explaining to your school counselor that you have this phobia and they may want to set up a meeting with the person so that they understand it's not personal reflection on their person, it's just something you can't help.
I wish everyone here telling OP she should "control" her reaction had to spend a week with a phobia or mental illness. It's not that I want to see them punished; it's that their lack of empathy is disturbing. Apparently there are people profoundly unable or unwilling to imagine how it might feel to be someone whose feelings aren't always convenient and whose actions aren't always inconspicuous. I can't use Jedi mind powers to stop having bipolar disorder any more than a girl with a form of dwarfism can think herself into growing. I have no intention of starting a contest over who's been dealt the worst genetic hand, and I certainly don't attest that I would win, but that's just the truth.
Op is a bitch for being a liar midgets are not real
not all fears are rational. I bet at one point in your life you were afraid of something for no good reason! ~_~ and what if the midget really was literally disfigured?? we weren't there so we dont know, but he/she could have been missing a leg!!
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Why the **** are you afraid of midgets?
13 - It's a strange fear but obviously there's a reason why she's scared of them. Also she probably can't control crying when she sees one. Think before posting another ignorant comment.