You have a horrible family I’m sorry

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Go no contact with the lot.

Yeah, that's just plain F'd up especially the part about doing it on your birthday that had to be intentional. I say it all the time blood don't mean jack if they don't treat you with respect you don't need them in your life.

Bitter Betty, birthdays are overrated. Now your family can celebrate your sister's anniversary on that date instead. If they forget your birthday, you won't age.

That’s very insensitive of your mother. I don’t want to be that person. But it seems obvious they chose your birth date for a reason. Shame on them. You are much better off without your ex husband. Your mom, your sister, and your relationship with them… need some work. They don’t seem like they have much respect for you. Even if you were the worst wife, sister, or daughter. This just is petty, atrocious, and a valid reason to cut them out of your life.

The way their relationship started, I could not see this marriage last.

Run. Run far, run fast, and never turn back. You won't be losing anything or anyone important.

wow. im not evsn sorry for saying this but you for sure leave all them. live your life gurl far away from them. aaaaaand also making their wedding "interesting" should be a good idea

Hire a mariachi band to play loudly outside while they get married and then never contact any of them ever again.