Weird assumption

By Anonymous - 12/10/2015 14:29 - United Kingdom - Hassocks

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Today, my best friend told me how his batshit insane girlfriend keeps questioning his sexuality and thinks we're screwing behind her back. He's so desperate for a relationship that he's decided to stop hanging out with me. Goodbye seven years of friendship. FML
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Same thing different taste

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This where you have to be the bigger person, you dont know what she says or does to him that caused him to break off your friendship. People in toxic relationship doesnt act logical and when you are the victim, yes your friend is and no gender doesnt matter, one try to keep the mad one happy. You still have friendship, it just waiting for him to come back and this is where you show support even if you cant hang out. But make sure he knows you be there when he needs a way out so he doesnt get isolated. I had a male friend who's girlfriend has made his life impossible to the point he wasnt allowed to speak or write to his own parents with out her getting a screaming fit saying he didnt love her. She even went so far to hurt self and blame him. We tried to help and give support but instead he ended his life.

just kill that bitch, if he went down then so shall she

bruh, what are you talking about? did you really just suggest murder?

Don't jump to conclusions OP.. You will always stay in his heart.. And once he realizes what he has lost...He'll get back to u.. Forgive him :)

Then he's not really a friend. Sorry Op.

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What OPs friend did is wrong, that's a fact. However, I feel like a lot of people here are not seeing things from the friends perspective. He is a lonely soul who is being taken advantage of by this succubus. Because of this he is not being rational. He has wants and desires that OP cannot provide for him. Could you really blame the guy for that? OP, I think you should try to coax him out of this relationship for his own good if you have not already done so. That's at least worth the seven years you guys have been buddies right? If he refuses to listen then you'll just have to let him see for himself that his GF is batshit insane. Just let him know he has someone to turn to when it is time.

I'll bet this won't be the last time she'll pull a stunt like this, especially since your friend has now shown her that her manipulation works. He'll need you when her behaviour escalates to unbearable levels, then perhaps you can show him how a proper friend acts, being all supporting and forgiving and stuff?

If this was posted in Rotherham, I would think my ex boyfriend had written this.

This is straight up abuse on the part of the girlfriend. She has no right to demand he stop hanging out with you because of her delusions and jealousy. I'd honestly try to point your friend to emotional abuse resources to help him realize what's going on before it's too late.