Who's been a naughty girl?

By one cock too many - 04/08/2020 05:02

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Today, I found out I’m the guy whose wife made adult films in college. Although embarrassed, I thought I may be able to get past it. Except for the fact that we dated in college, and she insisted we wait until after we were married to have sex. FML
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Bendegit 4

Sex for work, and sex with someone she actually cares about appear to be two totally separate things for her.

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Bogrbon 27

It's hard to tell what specifically happened from a 240 character blurb. We don't know if she was doing adult films while they dated, or if she had stopped and had a change of heart, and was trying to put things straight in her life. Still, this is a major thing to keep hidden and lie about. Moreover, if she was filming adult films while they were dating, it's a pretty strong betrayal on top of the lies. I guess you have to examine your feelings and the situation and decide 1. if you still want to be in the relationship at all, and 2. if you think you can get by the issues and come to trust your wife again. If you think you can, I'd definitely get some counseling (individually and as a couple, because you need to work through some of it on your own too.) If you're not okay with it, and especially if it was going on while you were together, that's a legitimate reason to get divorced.

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Iamthebanzai22 21

Having said that, I guess there's her side of the story as well. I would strongly recommend that you guys go for couples counseling so that you can work through this in a constructive manner.

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Veen Vin 3

very thouhtfull of you buddy good suggestion.

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Isaac Shields 9

why are some of you idiots making this his fault fact of the matter is she was lying to him and had him marry her under false pretenses no one should have decisions made for them like that

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Bogrbon 27

It's hard to tell what specifically happened from a 240 character blurb. We don't know if she was doing adult films while they dated, or if she had stopped and had a change of heart, and was trying to put things straight in her life. Still, this is a major thing to keep hidden and lie about. Moreover, if she was filming adult films while they were dating, it's a pretty strong betrayal on top of the lies. I guess you have to examine your feelings and the situation and decide 1. if you still want to be in the relationship at all, and 2. if you think you can get by the issues and come to trust your wife again. If you think you can, I'd definitely get some counseling (individually and as a couple, because you need to work through some of it on your own too.) If you're not okay with it, and especially if it was going on while you were together, that's a legitimate reason to get divorced.

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Tristan Nichols 8

I love how everyone is making excuses for her cheating but if it were flipped everyone would be telling her to leave

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oldfart3 2

bummer..it would kill me to find this out late in the game

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Jman212 6

If she made the films after insisting you wait. Get rid of her right now. She is probably cheating on you anyway or will one day. If she insisted you two wait because of her negative experience doing adult films and her desire to have something special. Show her that you still love her, accept her and that she is still special.

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KingAdrock 16

I'm surprised by how many people are okay with this. If she'd been in **** before being with OP that'd be different. But ******* people behind your SO's back is called "cheating". Getting paid for it doesn't magically make it not cheating. She ****** other people while they were together (and talking about marriage no less) and lied to OP about it.

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