You don't like the thumpa-thumpa music??

By worst birthday ever - 20/08/2022 16:00

Today, some people from work I don't know very well insisted on throwing me a surprise birthday party. They took me to a gay club. I'm straight, in a committed relationship, and suffer from horrible social anxiety and hypersensitive hearing. I would literally rather have been trapped in a burning building. FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 036
You deserved it 143

Same thing different taste

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There are a variety of reasons this could have happened. Maybe it’s a favorite place of some of your associates and they figured you would like it too. Or maybe it was intended as an object lesson in tolerance to someone they thought needed such a “lesson”. Or maybe it resulted from a complete misreading of who you are. At this point just let it go. Remember this - Unlike in grade school, your coworkers are colleagues, not your friends. Be nice and congenial at work but don’t expect anything more than that. Make close friends outside work. Then you’re not dependent on work for both your paycheck and your friends just in case things take a wrong turn….

I'll bet the stripper will change your mind. Happy Birthday!

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I'll bet the stripper will change your mind. Happy Birthday!

There are a variety of reasons this could have happened. Maybe it’s a favorite place of some of your associates and they figured you would like it too. Or maybe it was intended as an object lesson in tolerance to someone they thought needed such a “lesson”. Or maybe it resulted from a complete misreading of who you are. At this point just let it go. Remember this - Unlike in grade school, your coworkers are colleagues, not your friends. Be nice and congenial at work but don’t expect anything more than that. Make close friends outside work. Then you’re not dependent on work for both your paycheck and your friends just in case things take a wrong turn….