Wouldn't telling him you didn't want to be friends be the FIRST thing to do? Especially if he's calling you and you don't want to talk to him? YDI

no the first thing you do if you're naturally a nice person is to tell him to leave you alone and not to call or talk to you unless its work related, this creep had no friends in the town I live, I had no choice but to talk to him cause I had to work with him. I couldn't find another job cuase there's no jobs in town that would have been my first move. I'm eighteen I don't know much about creepy stalker guys, but this guy was way too old for me and way to creepy. Oh and at first I thought he was just bugging me cause he had no friends, so I tried to be the nice person even though I didn't want to be his friend.

A lot of females have this misconception that "being nice" is always the nice thing to do. If this guy is a "lonely creep" doesn't sound like you really wanted to be his friend in the first place. Pity is not a good reason for friendship. If this guy is older then you, he's a big boy, he can find his own friends or deal with being lonely, that's not your problem. What's worse? Avoiding a guy you find creepy from the start, or telling him you aren't interested or attracted to him from the start.... or ending an extended, one sided-friendship. Being honest or blunt does not equal being rude.

You can't really avoid your co-worker, expecailly when your stuck working in a store where two people work on each shift and the creep follows you around trying to talk to you, I would have my creepy co-worker work on the till and I stocked the coolers; I told him to leave me alone several times each shift I was stuck working with him. When he first started working where I work I was just trying to be socailable cause I'm a socail person so I talk alot. When he started to creep me out I started to ignore him, but how do you tell a co-worker what tasks are supposed to get done when you're trying to ignore said co-worker. I would tell him to leave me alone and let me get my work done, and I couldn't get the creep to stock the coolers cause he couldn't figure out how to properly, and he'd no matter what job he was doing always find time to bug me while I was trying to get my work done. You try ignoring someone who is following you around, and handling it in a sensative manner to avoid getting fired from your job, cause you want to tell your co-worker to f**koff. It's annoying, I'm glad that I'm finally rid of the problem and as far as what my current coworkers are saying the creep has gone back to Pakistan (did I spell that right), so as long as I stay away from Pakistan which I plan to I shouldn't have to deal with that creep ever again. I had to be really mean to get rid of him though, I basically told him I'd like it if he left town forever and that I never wanted to be his friend, it

most of us girls are way to nice to do that, I for one don't like to hurt other peoples feelings and I find myself apologizing for every little thing I do that make the people around me no matter who they are in any way unhappy.

"I'm a really nice guy, I messed around with this girl and she told me she loved me... I didn't love her back but I didn't want to hurt her feelings so I told her I loved her and continued to sleep with her. I had to leave her when she started asking about marriage." Doesn't sound too nice, huh? A nice girl would tell this guy to fsck off and that she does not want to be friends.

Dude this is when the girl doesn't do anything stupid like sleep with the guy. Like you don't mess around with anyone you don't like. You say no to everything that is uncomfortable to you. i wouldn't let the creep who was bugging me take me out for dinner, I ignored him everytime I ran into him when I wasn't at work. I'm not saying sleep with someone you don't like, girls don't typically do that. I just don't like being blunt and telling anyone that I don't want to be their friend, cause everybody deserves a friend. I have a hard time showing my true feelings about stuff becuase of shit that went on when I was a kid so its hard for me to tell someone that I hate their guts, and the reverse sort of thing (the guy I like doesn't know I like him), I've sheltered my feelings cuase I've been hurt too many god damn times and I don't like to pass that hurt on to anyone else whether or not I like them.

now why would anyone marry someone who creeps them out and who they don't like. Ever thought that a girl could like someone else, plus theres could be alot of guys who would go for said woman in question, they just have to get to know the person. And to those creeps who propose to girls who they pretty much just met,( what makes you think that the woman your proposing to is so good for you? ), if a girl is trying to avoid you like the plague then they obviously don't like you, fyi even if a girl is playing hard to get they won't try to completely avoid a guy. There are natural hints if a girl likes a guy, like when we stare at you and the minute you start to look back we turn away blushing, (we were checking you out, by nature we are nervous beings). If she's playing hard to get she'll probably be watching your reaction, if you start to walk away after asking her out and quickly look back at her and her head turns away like she was watching you then she probably likes you, not an expert though( i've never played hard to get but thats what I would probably do instictivly if I did). If she flat out refuses to go out with you then she doesn't like you.

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