Baseless

By Anonymous - 24/02/2015 15:10 - India - Tuticorin

Today, my fiancé and his family accused me of being with him only because he's rich, refusing to go ahead with the wedding. I accepted his marriage proposal 4 years ago, when he was penniless and unemployed. FML
I agree, your life sucks 46 277
You deserved it 2 964

Same thing different taste

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4 years ago he proposed and he is still just your fiance? I'm not judging just curious.

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They are well aware of the fact that you met him before he was rich, they just don't like you.

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I hope you take this as a sign to end your engagement OP. You don't deserve that from anyone. Tell him money can't buy you love...or respect. That's so rude.

I would understand if it was just your fiances family, but reading the FML, it sounds like your fiancé is accusing you too. Did his family convince him or is it just the family.

OP is in India, so the families probably have a lot more influence on who marries whom. Money is also a huge factor, so my guess is that OP's family has more money than the guy's ramily had before he got rich, so they were good with the marriage before. Now that he's loaded they think that he can do better.

Op shouldn't have to prove her love and commitment by signing a prenup in my opinion. The fact that she stayed with him while he was penniless and unemployed, as well as through him working hard and getting rich, proves her commitment and unwavering love.

Plus we don't know that the op doesn't deserve some of that money. Maybe op has stayed home with and raised their kids while he's been working, or maybe she's done things and made great sacrifices to help him get rich in the first place. A marriage is about joining together and although I don't think prenups are bad, I don't think they need to be signed as it often takes the support and love and sacrifice of the person you love to be able to make that money in the first place, therefore giving her a right to some of it, beyond the fact that they are choosing to "share" their life together. I say she's proved herself enough.

A lot of times parents will convince their children to do/say something the child himself doesn't want to do/say. His parents probably just don't like you, and are unfortunately convincing him to say something stupid

F*** his b**** a**. I'm pretty sure that if you weren't there helping and supporting his broke a** 4 years ago he'd be begging you for change l as you drive by in your Maserati! You know the one you would have been able to afford if it wasn't for taking care of his broke tail. Take all your shit and half of the furniture and electronics. The big tvs and leather stuff. just leave him the bed to remind him that he won't be getting any for a long time.

They gotta kno ur his lucky charm that got him paid.

That's just so sad OP. It must be hard but make sure he deserves a chance before discussing it. The Richness may have changed him.

have you told them they gone mad completely.....I hope you are in a position to judge the situation and take a wise decision about your future...

That sucks op, some people only have money on their mind (unlike Sam smith) and it makes them horrible people, I can understand the family being like that but your fiancée saying that is just wrong!