If you like women more than men, that’s OK. Don’t feel compelled to date people you don’t like. If you just don’t like the men you have dated but are attracted to men in general you are either looking in the places where men hang out who are repulsive to you, or sending off the vibe that you might be attracted to men that are repulsive to you, or screening out men who might be a good match but aren’t attractive enough. You need to take an honest look at your dating goals and standards: (1) Are you screening out the men who might be a good and decent mate but aren’t as attractive as you want? (2) Are you looking for a perfect looking guy who is probably out of your league as far as appearances go? Talk to a close friend and try to get some honest feedback. I suspect you need to adjust your dating standards and focus more on character and less on appearance.

And women are always complaining about not being able to find a nice toilet! How can we nice guys please you people!?!?

Judgemental much?

With a mentality like that I hope you stay single. Men deserve better than to be generalized like that.

I often find that if you look at the dating history of women who use these generalisations about men they keep dating the worse guys eg bad boys then wonder why their relationships never work.

The idea that "Men are inherently disgusting\evil\kinky and women are saints who put up with them" is an idea used to teach you that you should settle for the first vanilla man who eats with a fork you come across. This particular kink squicked you out, and that's okay, but please don't put yourself in a position where you'll settle--men are not inherently disgusting or evil, and if you think of them that way, you're never going to be able to find one worth your time.

Fun fact: Just because some men are misogynists, doesn't mean you get to be a misandrist in return. If anything, the guy made a lucky escape.

This just proves you make bad choices.

Nope, it's not men in general - it's people in general. There are as much female assholes as male, promise. But i don't see where he's done something wrong? He has a kink, you not. That's it. Go separate ways and all is fine.

People are disgusting pigs. For only 20 minutes that guy was full of himself. Good luck.