Brutally honest

By thisucks - 28/01/2010 13:59 - Canada

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Today, I went out on a date with a guy significantly older than myself. I told him I really liked him because I can have an intelligent conversation with him, unlike most guys my age. He told me he just wanted to get into my pants. FML
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KateeJo 0

At least he was straight forward? Now you don't have to waste any more time with him.

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elizacandle 29

at least he's honest

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mrhe3t 9

Maturity has never depressed the sexual urge, just because he's older and seems more intelligent is no fact to conclude he has no sexual interest. His intellect and class just allows him to hide it better than most, (it's what had you distracted)... so ydi for being naive and judgemental cause he was probably a nice guy, just tired of going through the whole nine yards.

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GuiLD15 7

dose of reality. The fact that you can have an intelligent conversation with him as opposed to the dunderheads you talk to, doesn't mean that he's any different and magically more suitable.

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sylverdrag_fml 9

Dear "This sucks", If you don't want to get into his pants, what you are looking for is a friend, not a boyfriend. Or perhaps you are just looking for someone to listen to you. And that's ok, but you don't go on dates with guys to make friends. Sex is the action of giving each other pleasure, making each other feel loved. It is the physical expression of your love. It's not a bad thing. If you don't WANT to give the guy pleasure, if you don't want to make him feel good and happy and contented, YOU are not ready for a relationship, you are not ready to date.

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Pycnogonida 16

Sylverdrag, I'm not sure you read this right. OP never said she doesn't want sex. It seems like what she wants is a partner who likes her for her personality and intellect and not just because she has a ****** and a pulse - and if the person isn't interested in what you have to say, that's a reasonable conclusion to make. Relationships are about more than just sex. It was not right to accuse OP of not being ready to date for wanting to be with someone who likes her for her personality. And sheesh. People can date without having sex and be perfectly happy. What about asexuals? And wtf is up with that guilt-trip at the end? "You must have sex with your partner or you are uncaring and selfish". Nobody owes anybody sex - not if they're dating, not if they're married, not ever. If you want good sex, pick someone who enjoys having sex with you, not somebody who has to be guilt-tripped into it.

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Tyguy823 14

Ya about like 45%(my estimate) of guys will be like that.

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zealove 7

Intelligence has nothing to do with age. You've found that the easy way, the hard way is to let him in your pants only to find out he is as juvenile as younger guys. Besides I don't think you are really above the level of the guys your age if you are shallow enough to value external factors as age (and I guess social position) above people's true inner values (that you are probably oblivious to or at least can't manage to make a difference)

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