Cool your jets

By unimpressed bride - This FML is from back in 2015 but it's good stuff - United States - Traverse City

Today, it's been two weeks since I got married. It's also two weeks since my husband got cold feet about moving in together, because he thinks the sudden change would be too emotionally distressing for his cat. FML
I agree, your life sucks 27 305
You deserved it 3 229

Top comments

I honestly can't tell which ones more of a pussy. Your husband or his cat.

Tell him it's either his kitty or yours.

Comments

Cats adjust easly...him on the other hand needs some work

Mehokaay 14

Your husband might have a reason from prior changes in the house, some cats are super weird and can stress themselves out to get "feline idiopathic cystitis"...it sounds super dumb but give the cat some time. If that's the only case for your husband ask him if he wants to work on the cat getting use to the lifestyle change steadily? Good luck

He did know that once you get married you move in together right? Why did he go through with the wedding if he was so concerned about his cat. I know guys who put pussy first but normally it's the pussy they are with and not their cats, just ask him which pussy is more important for him to have his or yours. Good luck OP

And this is why you should move in before you get married. That way you work out all the kinks and potential problems in a relationship before making a life time commitment. Obviously your husband needs to decide what and who his priorities are. I'm sure the cat will survive the move.

dman798 18

Try to lure him in with your kitty

I honestly don't think I could marry someone without living with them for a few years first. That's crazy...

This is one of the reasons why people should live together before they get married.

conholio33 28

Wow, i'm so sorry. Does he not know cats can handle a move well after a couple of weeks adjusting to a new home.