I usually am not one to hate on things, but my god, please understand that the BDSM community isn't a fan of that book, not do we encourage jumping into the kinky stuff after just reading that. I cannot even begin to express my hatred for that novel.

Thank you!! Someone who understands. I'm sick of the dungeons all full of want to be BDSM players. Ugh. That book caused so much trouble. There were already enough of fake Doms/Dommes now there's even more who know nothing of a real BDSM relationship!

It's awful. I had an experience with a girl in which, after siting and talking through everything for hours, she said she like extreme pain and had a lot of experience as a sub. That extreme pain stopped at a warm up hand spanking and her experience was reading all three books. She actually thought that the author created BDSM for the story.

Hey, hey, hey. No one said anything about the BDSM community. I was just saying it would have been embarrassing. Who wouldn't be embarrassed about reading that book?

In my neck of the woods the BDSM community is very much in favor of 50 Shades. Mostly because anything that gets the conversation in the public eye is a good thing, isn't it? Just because they don't know what they're doing doesn't mean it didn't resonate with them. Besides, everyone in the scene was new once, weren't they?

MI just find it a bit annoying that people now assume I jumped on the BDSM bandwagon because of Fifty Shades. j

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