Irresponsible
By InconsiderateMuch - 16/06/2013 18:11 - Canada - High River
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By flyakite29 - 20/07/2009 16:36 - United States
you deserve it for having a kid with an idiot like that.
At least he's not blowing his load on your sister.
Why is it "our money" if he's your boyfriend and not your husband?
Non-married couples can share incomes/bills/bank accounts too.
My guess is OP didn't expect these spending patterns while signing up.
My boyfriend and I live together and its "our money" because we share bills. Maybe that's the case with OP's situation. Although my boyfriend asked me to handle his money in my account otherwise he would spend it on stupid shit
If they're living together and having a kid, to some extent it is "our" money as inthey need to talk about those type of purchases.
You'd save money by leaving his ass
You are having a baby with a child. Congrats
Uhh, stand up to him and tell him enough is enough.
He has alot of growing up to do ,leave him & file for child support so it will be taken out his check.
You need to bring this up with him. Sit him down, talk to him, try to make him understand how serious this is. This is a new life we're talking about. If your talk doesn't help at all, I think you should consider leaving him. The kid needs a father who cares for him.
So glad to see someone on FML suggest fighting to make things work before just bailing out. Totally agree. It's about more than just OP's life now.
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I'm guessing it was an accident and OP doesn't want to get an abortion or put it up for adoption.
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Honey. He obviously does not care about his son. I say leave him because you don't want someone like him raising your child.
I'm not going to lie, and I'll accept whatever thumbs down this gets. Both OP and her boyfriend are complete and utter irresponsible idiots for smoking pot with a baby on the way. You don't smoke or do drugs when pregnant. I don't know if OP smokes, but if her boyfriend does, then the baby is getting some too.