Inappropriate, Harassment and Work: Motivated

Motivated

By Leah - This FML is from back in 2011 but it's good stuff - United States

Today, my boss gave me a speech about my "motivation issues". I've been working for him for 2 months, the commissions I've made for him paid off his bills, so what are my motivation issues? I turned down his offer of a date. I have a boyfriend. He keeps asking. FML

I agree, your life sucks 35 248

You deserved it 2 702

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By Anonymous - 25/05/2011 05:21 - Canada

Today, my boss called me into his office. Expecting a long overdue promotion, I hurried in. Instead, he told me he thought I would be perfect to take his son on a pity date, because he's a suicide risk due to his depression. FML

I agree, your life sucks 38 514

You deserved it 3 637

By unknown relationship - 28/06/2013 05:23 - United States - Shorewood

Today, after working at my job for months, I quit. Why? My boss tried to convince me that we are in a secret relationship, after he told me he loved me. FML

I agree, your life sucks 47 423

You deserved it 3 146

By mybossisanass - 23/04/2013 08:17 - United States

Today, I discovered why my boss kept on scheduling me to work doubles almost every day. It wasn't because she knew I needed the extra money; she was hoping that my boyfriend would break up with me because I'm never home, and date her instead. It worked. FML

I agree, your life sucks 72 080

You deserved it 4 707

By Flavorite - 10/02/2009 19:35 - United States

Today, my boss asked me to pick up an extra shift. I said I couldn't because I have a date. He told me I didn't need to lie and to just say no next time. FML

I agree, your life sucks 41 580

You deserved it 2 845

Creepy creep alert. Run!

By LeaveMeAlone - 06/04/2017 04:00

Today, my manager "bumped" into me 3 or 4 separate times. I told him months ago I didn't want to date him. He even asked me once if I was ever afraid of being kidnapped. FML

I agree, your life sucks 4 644

You deserved it 318

Before I forget…

By Anonymous - 24/05/2022 18:01

Today, my boyfriend proposed to me. My boss called me into her office and congratulated me, and spent almost half an hour asking me what our wedding plans were, where we might honeymoon, if we wanted kids, etc. She then followed this by suddenly remembering she had called me into the office to sack me. FML

I agree, your life sucks 1 251

You deserved it 80

The nerve of this dude

By ihatemyjob - 03/09/2015 03:37 - United States - Ridgeland

Today, my boss found me on a dating app. He found it perfectly acceptable to message me and didn't understand why I wasn't comfortable with it. He now wants to have a meeting with me about inappropriate behavior outside of work. FML

I agree, your life sucks 27 477

You deserved it 2 100

By wtf - 01/07/2017 16:00

Today, I got yelled at multiple times by my boss because my boyfriend didn't show up to work. FML

I agree, your life sucks 4 832

You deserved it 444

By AnonUser464 - 08/01/2013 16:40 - United States

Today, my boss called me over to his office; he wanted me to fire four hardworking employees. One of them was the girl I was going to ask out. FML

I agree, your life sucks 42 517

You deserved it 3 424

By outofajob - 08/07/2011 05:10 - United States

Today, after not receiving my paycheck for over a month, I confronted my boss about it. His response? "You still work here?" FML

I agree, your life sucks 39 758

You deserved it 3 892

someguyinCA 1

Friday 24 June 2011 12:02

Well thats clearly sexual harassment, no matter where you are in the US. Get a lawyer.

Livinia 11

Friday 24 June 2011 12:00

What's with all the horny bosses these days?!

Comments

Dodlaf_fml 4

Friday 24 June 2011 12:49

go on the date then sue him!

Lil_Red777 21

Friday 24 June 2011 20:53

She can't go on a date with him then sue him, all she has to do is say no and if he persists she can sue him for harassment but if he fires her she can also sue him for wrongful termination

puppy23 3

Friday 24 June 2011 13:09

Go speak with a lawyer and get evidence. Don't lead the guy on but record what he says, what he emails you etc. You can sue, bosses like that give the rest of us and guys in general a bad name.

sourgirl101 28

Friday 24 June 2011 15:12

I agree with keeping records of his advances. OP should also speak to the HR manager and have him/her aware of the problem.

patrickalamo 47

Friday 24 June 2011 13:14

You have to go to the EEOC not a lawyer. They will walk you through the process and if you have a good enough case they will handle it for you.

DuLLa 7

Friday 24 June 2011 13:21

How dare you write an FML about me?!!!! YOU'RE FIRED !!!!

sleepereffect 0

Friday 24 June 2011 13:36

sexual harassment suit and you become the. boss

perdix 29

Friday 24 June 2011 13:36

It's telling that you prove your worth with your individual accomplishment. You're not a team player. Go out with the boss and don't have sex with him. Duh.

liy223 6

Friday 24 June 2011 13:38

talk about dedication. jeez... not cool.

PSQ91 6

Friday 24 June 2011 13:47

The downside of being attractive.

insects4u 0

Friday 24 June 2011 14:30

I'd drive in, into his office that is right threw the wall. I would slam my paper work down on what's left of his desk. then I'd spit and aim for his eye. then I would get down on the floor beside him, and ask him if he still wants a date.

jobsman99 0

Friday 24 June 2011 14:32

find someone else to hire that will date him and get him off your back while you go to eeoc. and by the way document everything s keep a journal with dates, times, etc including the times it keeps you up at night to document the anguish and problems. good luck.