No, it just means you're a douchebag. There are polite ways of ending or refusing another date. ''I don't think we're compatible''. ''You're not the kind of person I'm looking for.'' ''I don't see us together in the future.'' ''I don't think we have much in common.'' ''We don't seem to share the same goals.'' Pick one. But I guess your ego is so big that you think other people would feel bad about not getting another date with you? Poor you, having to turn them down. Life is hard.

Here is a list of the responses I have heard from each of those respectively: "Well we could learn to work things out better." "Relationships are about learning to be with a person for who they are...*rant complain rant lecture*" I always get a pissy look or hateful friends when I do this one. I don't suggest it. Check the first two. I've never actually used this one. I actually have less of an ego than you would think. I am generally a submissive person unless backed into a corner. And yes I have had girls get pissed at me for letting them down easy. I went on a date with someone where she was so awkward she didn't say a word the entire time. I said I didn't think I could be with someone that didn't feel comfortable enough to talk to me and she replied that I was a jerk for being so mean. I bought her flowers, I took her to a movie, we went for a walk in the park, we even visited a local carnival and played games there, but she never said a word. It was cute at first, but ended up being annoying and made it hard to carry on a conversation. I'm a loyal guy, I am the type of person to buy girls flowers just cause. I treat every day like it is valentines. Girls can be vengeful and sorta mean at times. You could be better off acting really badly so you don't hurt their feelings than just letting them down easy. If they don't want to see you because you lacked manners or something, that can be better than saying something from your list and having hatred breed because you didn't give it a chance in her eyes. This wasn't about MY ego, it was about trying to help OP understand. Either way, treat the guy as a douche and don't go back. You are both better off.