I don't understand why everyone jumps to the divorce button on this. If you're waiting to be married to somebody who will never be attracted to another person in his whole life, you can go ahead of wait for the second coming. Everyone is attracted to more than one person in their lifetime, no matter how much they love you or are committed to you (that goes for you too OP). I bet the gal that wrote this isn't necessarily contemplating divorce, I still agree with your FML, but don't be too hasty to throw your vows out the window. Your husband was tempted, was up front with you about it, and that counts for a lot. Sexual infidelity is not nearly as bad as a million other types of betrayal, especially if permission was asked first. You're likely to be tempted yourself within this marriage, or within another, so who knows. Maybe your husband will return the favor and allow you an indiscretion. It sounds kinda hot actually, if a husband and wife trust each other that much.

At least he asked instead of did it behind your back. Are you familiar with the term "Hall Pass"?

aw how sweet

"Only if we can have a three-sum."

what did you amswered?

What was the answer??

You're too good for him OP

to be fair he basically asked for an open marriage so he's not a complete asshole. just an ass

You need to divorce him ASAP

"Sure, if I can sleep with your best friend."