well you can't fix crazy.

I her death also played a bit of a part in it. And by the way the word love can mean different things depending on how it's used and besides it doesn't matter how old he was the fact is she died and the guy just misses her a lot. Do try to think.

We also don't know how long they dated for. They could have fallen in love years into the relationship.

Sounds like the movie "over my dead body"

What a douche

i think your boyfrind needs help

If he's disillusioned enough to think that "you" are standing in the way of his love with a deceased former gf, then not only will you be better off w/out him, but he's in need of some grief counseling.

Sounds like he wants to crack open a cold one

He did you a favor. Sounds like he's crazy.

He seems to really have deep issues there. If you still want to try, maybe you could do some counseling with him or he could do some alone. He needs some closure with her to get back to the real world, especially if that occurred at 13, a very tough time for kids. If he's adamant about not going, then you at least tried. There isn't just one soul mate, OP, eventually you will find someone that makes you just as happy. Grieve at the loss, yes, but don't sink because of it. Best of luck