Thanks for the support!
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Maybe you shouldn't have talked about your ex? But anyway, don't lose your self esteem over a guy who finds something like that completely hilarious. He didn't even try to hold in his laughter or anything so I'd say he doesn't give a damn about your feelings. Sorry, OP.
We're now laughing too. (:
To be fair it was dick movie, but he could've been laughing at how messed up it was not that you were hurt. That context does matter, plus being a bar tender I'm sure he hears stories like this frequently. Also flirting with the bartender in a popular vacation spot? Most guys in that position probably slept with so many tourists who knows what unintentional souvenirs you may have brought back. Be thankful it didn't work out.
'Unintentional souvenirs' - I like that.
What is it supposed to feel like exactly? A walk in the friggin park with birds singing like in Disney? It feels probably like the dude tore out her heart and stomped all over it, and then walked away (figuratively). Three years of her life down the drain because of an asshole, it's not going to feel like nothing is wrong.
You've been with a guy for three years, and you go on a trip to Spain without him. All things equal, YDI.
YDI, for telling someone you don't even know that you were dumped in the first place, not only that how you were dumped is embarrassing enough as it is. Also why talk about exes with a guy you think is cute on your last day of vacation you should have spent that time talking about something far more interesting.
So basically you didn't get your one night of "Fun" With the bartender. Why do people dump others via messaging??
what a douchbag
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Was it one of them awkward moments where he spoke Spanish but you could understand every bit of it?
It always grinds my gears when I hear about people dumping others via message. Tell them in person if possible. Sorry to hear about the touchy subject being brought up. At least you'll probably never see them again.