The pros and cons

By Anonymous - 05/01/2024 16:00 - United States - Buffalo

Today, I realized I'm trapped. I might be heading into an abusive relationship that I won't be able to escape, but I can't leave because then I'd break his heart and I love him too much for that. FML
I agree, your life sucks 145
You deserved it 1 036
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bigredmonkeybutt 28

It’s sad that you don’t love yourself enough to save yourself while you can.

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Chazzster 28

OP, you definitely need counseling. No one should let themselves be abused physically or emotionally. Yes, we all take a little discomfort or even minor verbal abuse at times, but if it looks like a pattern you have to get out of the relationship and get away - The sooner the better. It’s part of why everyone needs the ability to earn a living and take care of themselves - Otherwise they are stuck in dependency.

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diagnosed 15

There's no problem in loving someone but knowing when a relationship is going To be any type of abusive relationship is not good .

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bigredmonkeybutt 28

It’s sad that you don’t love yourself enough to save yourself while you can.

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Chazzster 28

OP, you definitely need counseling. No one should let themselves be abused physically or emotionally. Yes, we all take a little discomfort or even minor verbal abuse at times, but if it looks like a pattern you have to get out of the relationship and get away - The sooner the better. It’s part of why everyone needs the ability to earn a living and take care of themselves - Otherwise they are stuck in dependency.

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lgrave 7

I agree, your life... you deserved it!

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Crowned Sataness 12

if he's becoming abusive, he doesn't love you. you're doing this to yourself for no damn reason. get your head out of your ass

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FluffythePink 21

Loving your abuser more than you love yourself requires a fair bit of therapy.

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DirtySalamander 9

you need to think of yourself. you know what you want. let go and live your life. it's that easy. you just choose not to

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octinate 17

you’re going to be full of regret later when he starts ruining your life and giving you traumas, he’ll break your heart anyway because abusers dont love you they see you as a possession to control, he just hiding it well for now

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