Thoughts?

By Anonymous - 19/05/2024 00:00 - France - Paris

Today, my boyfriend doesn’t like to go out, like at all. I went on a cruise earlier this year and met this guy from my school; we danced together, we talked all night long, and it was amazing. It's been nine months since, and I still haven’t got over it. I'm now questioning my entire 3-year relationship. FML
I agree, your life sucks 415
You deserved it 313

Same thing different taste

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Maybe you’re just not compatible with your boyfriend anymore. It happens.

what is there to question? Sounds like you already decided. Just break it nicely to him and move on

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Maybe you’re just not compatible with your boyfriend anymore. It happens.

anony_mouse 5

Sounds like you emotionally cheated. Since you are clinging to that night, there's no recovering, the relationship is all but over.

being married to someone who hates to travel or try anything outside their comfort zone sucks.

what is there to question? Sounds like you already decided. Just break it nicely to him and move on

If you turned out to be not compatible then that's no ones fault. It takes time to actually get to know someone, it's when the 'good behaviour' of the honeymoon period wears off and you get to see the warts and all of the person. Some people can live with it, some can't. This is why relationships tend to go **** up at around 3 and 7 years. Don't waste either of your time in a situation that is going nowhere and that isn't doing it for you. Sticking around will just build up resentment and cause a massive breakup bang instead of a nice, civilised parting of ways.

Being weighed down by someone who is glued to their TV or gaming console is no way to live. Clearly you want more from life. Time to get more.

Definitely time to have a talk with your boyfriend. And best do it now before your boyfriend becomes your fiance and/or husband.