By RandomJam124 - 04/05/2016 21:33 - United States - Binghamton
IHateMyself124 tells us more.
Hello everyone, So to clear some things up: 1. I am a Freshman in college (18 years old). 2. I only added him on Facebook the night we kissed and he DID accept. 3. He was the first one to message me actually. He asked me to food that same night, but I was already in bed. Then he asked me to lunch the next day but I had already eaten, so I invited him to dinner with me and my friends instead but he declined. 4. Then (this is the first time I messaged him first) I took the initiative and asked him to grab a snack with me the next night, which was the most casual of the four food proposals thus far, and he blocked me on Facebook. 5. I'm not exactly sure why he blocked me. I did not stalk him. I did not message him a whole bunch of times. I did not make any statuses about the kiss. I'm not even going to be attending the same university as him next semester because I'm transferring out for my major. He knew that. 6. I do not think I was a bad kisser because he tried to meet up with me again the same night. The whole thing was just confusing. I think he maybe got nervous or scared or spoken to by some "well-meaning" friends or something. I just would have been less hurt had he simply unfriended me or ignored my message. My confidence definitely took a hit. 7. Despite the hurtfulness of his actions, I do not regret the kiss. It was a really nice kiss. And the actual story from the night of is pretty funny. Sorry for the long message! Hope that cleared some things up though!
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Either he moved on (Because that's what freshmen tend to do rather easily), or it just seemed to be too much work for him. Not saying either are your fault, just possibilities. You're cute, you'll do fine, don't let anyone else affect your confidence! (Some boys just have no experience dealing with the finer sex, so try not to judge him too harshly)
Maybe he wanted to spend some time with just the both of you. You know get to know you better, but when the time finally comes to hang out you invite your friends. So he thought you were never going to make time to see him and maybe thought you were just wasting his time.
Now I have that song in my head!!!!!!!!!
you 're still so lucky, i'm not even kissed by anyone :((((
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OP got mad skills and he got scared. Poor thing.
The way I see it, he probably felt a little blown off the first two times he tried to meet up with you and then probably turned off at the idea of being with you, AND your friends when he was probably looking for a little alone time with you versus in a group. I could be wrong though, but either way, he could have just been honest about whatever he was thinking or feeling versus just blocking you out of the blue.