By RandomJam124 - 04/05/2016 21:33 - United States - Binghamton
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IHateMyself124
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Hello everyone, So to clear some things up: 1. I am a Freshman in college (18 years old). 2. I only added him on Facebook the night we kissed and he DID accept. 3. He was the first one to message me actually. He asked me to food that same night, but I was already in bed. Then he asked me to lunch the next day but I had already eaten, so I invited him to dinner with me and my friends instead but he declined. 4. Then (this is the first time I messaged him first) I took the initiative and asked him to grab a snack with me the next night, which was the most casual of the four food proposals thus far, and he blocked me on Facebook. 5. I'm not exactly sure why he blocked me. I did not stalk him. I did not message him a whole bunch of times. I did not make any statuses about the kiss. I'm not even going to be attending the same university as him next semester because I'm transferring out for my major. He knew that. 6. I do not think I was a bad kisser because he tried to meet up with me again the same night. The whole thing was just confusing. I think he maybe got nervous or scared or spoken to by some "well-meaning" friends or something. I just would have been less hurt had he simply unfriended me or ignored my message. My confidence definitely took a hit. 7. Despite the hurtfulness of his actions, I do not regret the kiss. It was a really nice kiss. And the actual story from the night of is pretty funny. Sorry for the long message! Hope that cleared some things up though!
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You gave him the kiss of life ?
First kiss drama. Trust me though, there are more people much more fun and worth your kisses!
We're you that bad at kissing?!
jaysonn1987
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Damn that sucks!
IHateMyself124
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Hello everyone, So to clear some things up: 1. I am a Freshman in college (18 years old). 2. I only added him on Facebook the night we kissed and he DID accept. 3. He was the first one to message me actually. He asked me to food that same night, but I was already in bed. Then he asked me to lunch the next day but I had already eaten, so I invited him to dinner with me and my friends instead but he declined. 4. Then (this is the first time I messaged him first) I took the initiative and asked him to grab a snack with me the next night, which was the most casual of the four food proposals thus far, and he blocked me on Facebook. 5. I'm not exactly sure why he blocked me. I did not stalk him. I did not message him a whole bunch of times. I did not make any statuses about the kiss. I'm not even going to be attending the same university as him next semester because I'm transferring out for my major. He knew that. 6. I do not think I was a bad kisser because he tried to meet up with me again the same night. The whole thing was just confusing. I think he maybe got nervous or scared or spoken to by some "well-meaning" friends or something. I just would have been less hurt had he simply unfriended me or ignored my message. My confidence definitely took a hit. 7. Despite the hurtfulness of his actions, I do not regret the kiss. It was a really nice kiss. And the actual story from the night of is pretty funny. Sorry for the long message! Hope that cleared some things up though!
Some mean are terrified of women to "make the first move" such as asking for a casual snack date. It has nothing to do with you but those men usually find that question as "being pushy" or "an affront to my man-hood". I've found that those men aren't worth the breath it takes to ask. (Yes I am speaking from experience.) I wouldn't worry too much about it OP. You'll eventually find someone that doesn't overreact to silly things like that.
The way I see it, he probably felt a little blown off the first two times he tried to meet up with you and then probably turned off at the idea of being with you, AND your friends when he was probably looking for a little alone time with you versus in a group. I could be wrong though, but either way, he could have just been honest about whatever he was thinking or feeling versus just blocking you out of the blue.
OP, have you considered the possibility that he already has a girlfriend and got scared that he'd get caught? Either way, try not to take it too personally. He is the one who should embarrassed, not you.
Did he block you or delete his account / or get his account deleted? They appear the same. See if someone else can see his account.
IHateMyself124
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I think he felt awkward. See my long comment below for more info.
Mathalamus
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Mathalamus
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yeah but i have some standards in real life. if i wasn't interested in the girl, i would not do anything that might lead her on. like kissing her. or anything. online, it doesnt matter. its basically routine behavior. on both sides.
Wtf are you talking about, and why do you keep referring to "online"? It's pretty clear from the original post, and then the follow up thereafter, that they actually kissed in person. I man, it's pretty hard to do it via the computer, so why the heck would online dating have anything to do with this?
Are you a dementor?
That's how it happens. With kisses, hugs, sex, all of it.
… Wuh? What's "it" supposed to be?
Waste her time 2k16?
LOL YES.
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OP got mad skills and he got scared. Poor thing.
The way I see it, he probably felt a little blown off the first two times he tried to meet up with you and then probably turned off at the idea of being with you, AND your friends when he was probably looking for a little alone time with you versus in a group. I could be wrong though, but either way, he could have just been honest about whatever he was thinking or feeling versus just blocking you out of the blue.