By Jessch15 - 13/01/2012 12:45 - United States
Jessch15 tells us more.
Im the one who posted this... to all the people calling me a bitch, there was a lot more to the story that I couldnt include in because of the text limit. We just didnt have alot in common, the more I got to know him the weirder he got and he was getting clingy very quickly. Plus his parents were freak, tried to prevent me from leaving their house at one point and freaked me out. OF COURSE I TALKED TO HIM ABOUT IT. Was just trying to figure out what to say when he called and left that voicemail. Since I have talked to him and broke it off and he seemed to understand. Then he begin harrassing me via phone calls and text and today he showed up at my work. Ive had to change me phone number and co workers have told me since i left work he has been back asking for me and they had to call the cops becuase he was refusing to leave and got violent with my boss. Im not a bitch.
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What's the thing with your rules, America? Third date, some base... WTF? Just go ahead and see if you like him. You can still cancel it, if he's not the right one.
Way to be a bitch. Instead of being up front, and politely explaining to him that it made you uncomfortable, you just flat out drop him. TBH, he deserves better than you to begin with.
You just stopped answering the phone? Sorry, but that's a dick move on ur part. Could have at least told him u weren't interested if he was obviously that into your relationship.
Stage five clinger, alert!
YDI for not answering his calls. Acquire some balls and tell him how you feel.
When I was 16 I met a guy at my friends birthday, surrounded by his family. On our third date we went to a funfair near my house and I had the chance to introduce him to my parents, he got creeped out, saying it was too soon for this, again, first meeting,WHOLE FAMILY! second date spent at his parents place with his sister and cousins watching movies. So ya, little bit hypocritical me thinks! To say the least. it did not last long!
Well whats wrong with him actually having emotions.
it's called being romantic and in it for the long haul, you must have given the impression that you wanted a relationship rather than just sex. Just saying.
However clingy he might seem, it is partially your fault for pulling a disappearing act on him. That's the worst way you can tell someone you're not interested. It just makes you look like a coward.
Im the one who posted this... to all the people calling me a bitch, there was a lot more to the story that I couldnt include in because of the text limit. We just didnt have alot in common, the more I got to know him the weirder he got and he was getting clingy very quickly. Plus his parents were freak, tried to prevent me from leaving their house at one point and freaked me out. OF COURSE I TALKED TO HIM ABOUT IT. Was just trying to figure out what to say when he called and left that voicemail. Since I have talked to him and broke it off and he seemed to understand. Then he begin harrassing me via phone calls and text and today he showed up at my work. Ive had to change me phone number and co workers have told me since i left work he has been back asking for me and they had to call the cops becuase he was refusing to leave and got violent with my boss. Im not a bitch.
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You stopped answering his calls, just like that, without even telling him you weren't interested in dating him any more? Why? How do you expect him to react to that? As far as he knows, you're still interested but temporarily not near your phone.
Run. As far as you can.