By Jessch15 - 13/01/2012 12:45 - United States

Today, a guy took me to meet his parents on a second date. I stopped answering his calls afterwards, but he's just left me a voice-mail informing me that he's in love with me. I'm scared. FML
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Jessch15 tells us more.

Im the one who posted this... to all the people calling me a bitch, there was a lot more to the story that I couldnt include in because of the text limit. We just didnt have alot in common, the more I got to know him the weirder he got and he was getting clingy very quickly. Plus his parents were freak, tried to prevent me from leaving their house at one point and freaked me out. OF COURSE I TALKED TO HIM ABOUT IT. Was just trying to figure out what to say when he called and left that voicemail. Since I have talked to him and broke it off and he seemed to understand. Then he begin harrassing me via phone calls and text and today he showed up at my work. Ive had to change me phone number and co workers have told me since i left work he has been back asking for me and they had to call the cops becuase he was refusing to leave and got violent with my boss. Im not a bitch.

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You stopped answering his calls, just like that, without even telling him you weren't interested in dating him any more? Why? How do you expect him to react to that? As far as he knows, you're still interested but temporarily not near your phone.

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cuddlebunny3548 11
Jazzy_B34r 12

whatever happened to taking it slow...

You simply stop taking the guy's calls without a reason and he's the creepy one for insisting? For all he knows, you're just not available at the moment. I'd keep trying to call too. If you think second date is too soon to meet his parents, you should have said so, and before you did go to his place. Not suddenly cut all ties afterwards without even talking to him. You're just being immature and selfish. Not to mention how disrespectful it all was to him AND the parents you just met.

Im the one who posted this... to all the people calling me a bitch, there was a lot more to the story that I couldnt include in because of the text limit. We just didnt have alot in common, the more I got to know him the weirder he got and he was getting clingy very quickly. Plus his parents were freak, tried to prevent me from leaving their house at one point and freaked me out. OF COURSE I TALKED TO HIM ABOUT IT. Was just trying to figure out what to say when he called and left that voicemail. Since I have talked to him and broke it off and he seemed to understand. Then he begin harrassing me via phone calls and text and today he showed up at my work. Ive had to change me phone number and co workers have told me since i left work he has been back asking for me and they had to call the cops becuase he was refusing to leave and got violent with my boss. Im not a bitch.

cooLING 0

From experience: block all the connections he has to you. Nothing good can come from this needy/clingy guy. Don't let him manipulate you into continuing it either...

marsgirl_fml 0

wow your horrible my now husband told me he loved me the first week we were dating in hs never went out on a date or anything and i was freaked out told him that and we just dated he was sweet and now we are married. no matter how you feel he deserves to know whats going on.

Im the one who posted this... to all the people calling me a bitch, there was a lot more to the story that I couldnt include in because of the text limit. We just didnt have alot in common, the more I got to know him the weirder he got and he was getting clingy very quickly. Plus his parents were freak, tried to prevent me from leaving their house at one point and freaked me out. OF COURSE I TALKED TO HIM ABOUT IT. Was just trying to figure out what to say when he called and left that voicemail. Since I have talked to him and broke it off and he seemed to understand. Then he begin harrassing me via phone calls and text and today he showed up at my work. Ive had to change me phone number and co workers have told me since i left work he has been back asking for me and they had to call the cops becuase he was refusing to leave and got violent with my boss. Im not a bitch.

Tell him you have moved on and don't feel the same way about him. Change your phone number and don't make eye contact if you see him. I had a guy do that to me too, turned out he Was at a turning point in his life where his choices were to marry me or go to Australia for a year. He had fun down there and when he came back, finally met the girl that is now his wife. (not me, thank God!)

AvaVolterra 0

That's a bit creepy, but I think you should talk to the guy. If he's being serious or if this is a joke. And if you don't like him in the way he does, be staright forward, don't beat around the bush and bring his hopes up.

LoveMay 10

For all those How I Met Your Mother watchers, I guess you're dating Ted Mosby, OP :3

I met my now in laws on my husband and mines second or third date and I instantly loved them and enjoyed hanging with them more than my own family. He knew i would fit right in with them so there was nothing creepy about it. We had a blast :)

Speak up. Either tell him to slow down, or tell him you're out. Just not returning calls is cowardly and confusing, no matter how (wrong) he acts.