That is brutal

Op's already given him a second chance, and hes still hung up on the other woman. its safe to say that if they were to try again, the same would happen. how many chances does he need? a mistake only happens once, after that its not a mistake but a choice. he choose to have an affair , so he doesnt deserve another chance.

Cheating never works out, OP. No matter how much you'll try. If they can do it once, they can do it again, and I suggest that you don't hurt yourself in the process. If he's a cheater, that's it. Game over. Don't worry. I'm sure there's a person out there who's looking for you and you'll find him faithful

Like everyone else is saying once is a mistake that can be forgiven but an affair is a repeated choice and that cannot be forgiven cut your lost now

I have to say, as a guy, you deserve it for staying with the prick. He ****** up and doesn't deserve you. You staying with him tells him it's ok.

Wow OP I'm so sorry, that must have hurt a lot. :/ I hope you and your husband can work things out and get past this. Try counseling if you haven't already.

he loves her break up with him sorry.

DUMP that cheating bastard....I doubt it will get much better unless he does something radically different. I'm so sorry but *hugs* and also: internet dating is getting much better these days!

you shouldnt have forgiven him. hes an asshole. hope you can move on tho

Goodbye husband........