Excuse the pun... :P

I will totally thumbs you down for being all preachy and judgmental. OP can sleep with whom ever he/she wants to. That's not the point of the FML. The point is that their stuff got pissed on and it sucks.

Excuse me, I think you are confused. I never said the OP "Couldn't sleep with who they wanted". The OP has a complete right to sleep with whoever they want! Our US Constitution is beautiful in how it gives individual liberties to people, provided those liberties do not directly infringe on the rights of others. However, just because "they have a right to sleep with who they want" doesn't mean there aren't consequences for those actions. "Being allowed to do something" does not automatically make the actions blame-free or consequence-free. You seem to have the mind of a child, in that regard. Or perhaps you are just purposely acting stupid, due to political correctness, who knows. Example 1- I am legally allowed to jump off a dumpster onto asphalt if I want. Does that mean that if my leg breaks, it's "not my fault for jumping because I can do what I want"? Example 2- let's say the person they sleep with has HIV. They can "choose to sleep with them", yes! The person with HIV may be in legal trouble, but not the person choosing to bang them though. However is that a SMART decision? NO! ITS STUPID! Same thing here. The OP LEGALLY can CHOOSE to sleep with a one night stand- yes. NOBODY is saying otherwise. But let's not pretend it was an intelligent decision to do so. Obviously, it ended badly. Why did it end badly, little girl? Oh yeah- because it was a stupid decision, because people who don't know you well do not tend to show respect, and she had no knowledge of if that guy was a psycho, a bad drunk, or just a pisser, that's why. Yes, she "is legally allowed to do what she wants"- but that does not mean that her actions did not somehow cause this.

So no, the point is not that "her stuff got pissed on and it sucks". Her stuff did not get pissed on by the Magical Piss Fairy. Her stuff got pissed on by the drunk man she had sex with, whom she had just met, whom she voluntarily allowed into her home, who could have slit her throat or robbed her or raped her, a guy WHO SHE DID NOT KNOW AT ALL. THAT is how her "stuff got pissed on". That is WHO "pissed on" her stuff. Therefore, the moral of the story is "If you do not want bad things to happen- such as having your stuff pissed on- it might be intelligent to not allow people into the privacy of your home, much less your own bed, before you know them at least moderately well." Get it? You are free to IGNORE this advice, but it doesn't mean it ain't true. It's funny, the same feminists who PRETEND to be SOOOO scared of the Big Bad Evil Men, are the same feminists who idiotically allow drunk idiots into their home to bang them out, and then act shocked when their house gets destroyed or stuff gets stolen or they get raped. Like really? Why are you surprised by human nature? I thought feminists of all people, understand how dangerous strange men can be sometimes?

1) Nowhere does it say that OP is a female 2) How about you stop **** shaming? Me thinks the lady doth protest too much. 3) Chill the hell out.

I am so tired of this kind of arguments. "You wore a short skirt, you're the one to blame". Going home with someone does not mean they can treat you however they want to. Plus, I can only imagine how tiresome it must be as a guy to always be referred to as some kind of animal that can't control your urges.

That user commented on another post saying that wishing someone happy holidays is 'patronising and insulting the saviour who died for your sins'. I went on their profile and it said they've been banned, thankfully.

Really?? Destroying other's items, stealing, and raping is human nature? You have a very low opinion of people, because that isn't human nature. People aren't just programmed to resort to those terrible things by default or biology. The people that do those things are just terrible individuals who are actively choosing to be bad and inflict harm on their victims. It is a choice, if they didn't CHOOSE to do bad things, there would be NO victims. The victims of those bad people's choices are IN NO WAY at fault, they did nothing wrong, the perpetrator did. We're an evolved, intelligent species completely responsible for our own actions, especially when they hurt other's. Saying people, and you focused on men specifically, are just bad by nature is quite frankly insulting and disgusting. We're people, not savage animals. Also, NO WHERE does it mention alcohol, or that either of them were drunk or drinking. The US Constitution is also irrelevant here because this FML is from the UK.

Maybe people should have some decency and not damage other's property and we wouldn't have this problem. Having consensual sex (as long as there's no cheating) - hurts no one and isn't illegal. Property damage - hurts people and it's illegal. SEE THE DIFFERENCE. Also, the term *****, that's often used to refer to women. Maybe you didn't notice, but no where does it specify gender.