At least he will have you screaming...

So "be more spontaneous" = "I never have orgasms" to you? WTH OP? What you said isn't even a hint! If you have been communicating your wishes in the same way before, I definitely DO see how you might be in the situation you are in. And you also need to tell your boyfriend you don't want anal if you really don't want it, and DON'T try to tell him in hints, or you WILL get it in the ass.

well? dit that make you ****** or what?

Why are you hinting? Why aren't you telling him "I don't ******, we need to experiment so I ****** during sex". He's not going to know otherwise, you have to tell him directly, so stop hinting and speak to him.

You need to be more than "polite". Talk to him when you're both not busy and explain to him what you need. Be specific, not mean or naggy, but specific. Give him a book, watch some videos. Men often (not always, but often) need things spelled out for them.

Just subtly push his head down town.

Sex isn't just about the guy doing all the work. You know, if you got into it and took charge maybe you would enjoy it a little more - no one knows what you like more than you

USE. YOUR. WORDS. No hints. No subtlety. Just TELL him what you want.

You need to be more specific

hey give it a chance you might like it. on the other hand... when you are talkin to guys you have to say exactly what you mean... i am not trying to call them stupid its just they think with their dick or stomach and that's it.