By hc11bmd - 19/06/2012 17:20 - United States - Bethel

Today, I asked a coworker what she'd bought her dad for father's day. She said that she got him some flowers, and I laughed because I thought it was a rather feminine gift for a man. I later found out that the flowers were for his grave. FML
I agree, your life sucks 11 476
You deserved it 55 168

Same thing different taste

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GuyWithThePants 7

Maybe that'll teach you to be so judgmental

B3Y0ND 3

You couldn't have possibly known about her dead father, but you still should have been more sensitive about her gift choice. No need to be rude about it.

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It's understandable..I mean that's a mistake anyone could make but I doubt the person will hate you for it. Most people are pretty forgiving of misunderstandings like this!

You may have not known, but it's really the thought that counts. Plus, flowers are for everyone. They smell great and aren't girly.

boysgirl123 0
linkinpark98 23

I wish my dad even appreciated my gifts. :/ I hand crafted a ship made out of ebony wood, and he said, "Is that all you got me? Sheesh, I was expecting something a bit more to my liking." :(

More like F the coworkers life Op you deserved that one..

I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, since it seems like you didn't know her father passed away.

If she didn't know her co-workers dad passed away they're probably not close, therefore making it just plain rude to criticize her gift choice.

pengin 13

Op, you're an asshole, although obviously you didn't know. :( but, that made me so sad to read.... I mean, if society didn't have such a conception of what is "masculine" and what is "feminine" our relationships and livelihoods wouldn't be so messed-up, and this sad situation wouldn't have came up. I mean, men should be able to show their emotions and accept flowers for a gift without it such a taboo that he must be "gay" etc etc etc.