Love: Today, I finally got the courage to talk to this coworker I like...

By Worthless Waste of Skin Who Hates Himself - 30/04/2016 12:59 - Georgia - Tbilisi

Today, I finally got the courage to talk to this coworker I like and ask her out for a coffee next door. She was dismissive, cold and rude, and filed a complaint with HR. FML

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By Anonymous - 27/11/2015 15:52 - United States - Westerville

Today, after many years of being single, I finally worked up the courage to ask my coworker out. He said no and gave me "fair warning" that he's going to report me for sexual harassment. FML

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By Lunar-Spice - 23/07/2019 04:05

Today, I asked one of the girls at work out on a date. She responded by filing a harassment complaint. Now, I can't speak to her at all without being written up. FML

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By negromancer - 11/07/2009 01:08 - United States

Today, I worked up the courage to ask my crush out for coffee after work. She agreed and I confidently said, "Alright, it's a date!" She replied, "Haha, a date with you? I'm just going for the free coffee!" FML

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Never do this

By Anonymous - 05/07/2015 06:18 - United States - Cranford

Today, I confessed my feelings to the girl I like, who also happens to be my coworker. She told my boss, and they're laughing about it as I type this. FML

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By Smitty Werbenjeagermanjensen - 27/10/2016 03:19 - United States - Amarillo

Today, I had a conversation with the cute girl I like at work for the first time. I told her I worked in the camping department of the store, and we had a long chat about how she heard that the guy who runs that department is a complete dick head. I am the guy who runs that department. FML

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By 6u174r_d00d - 10/08/2011 21:10 - United States

Today, I saw a cute girl working register at my regular coffee shop and politely asked the her for her number. I was brutally rejected. A few minutes later, a douchebag with a popped collar approached her with a cheesy pickup line and left with not only her number, but a free frappe. FML

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Awww, cute!

By Anonymous - 24/10/2024 22:00 - United States - Portland

Today, I finally worked up the courage to ask out the girl I like. After nervously fumbling through my words, I asked, "Want to grab a cup of water sometime?" She looked at me confused, then asked if I meant coffee. FML

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Snitch

By Cerie - 06/10/2022 16:00

Today, I confronted my coworker, who I had a crush on, for lying to me. He’d told me he was gay when I asked him out. He’s now dating another coworker of mine who’s a woman. He took this up with my boss, and I was written up for “creating a hostile work environment.” FML

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Hey

By Anonymous - 27/05/2021 00:01 - Canada

Today, I decided to step out of my comfort zone and talk to my coworker because people have been saying I’m too shy. I say, "Hey" to a girl and she made fun of my voice. She’s the one who told me to talk more. FML

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By Spudzy - 11/04/2012 16:46 - Australia - Gold Coast

Today, I tried hitting on the new receptionist at work. After a few flirtatious comments and subtly hinting that I thought she was bangable, she informed me that she's married to our boss. FML

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marcranger 28

Sunday 1 May 2016 17:59

I think this really depends on how you asked her and how creepily you've been crushing on her from afar.

UnicornWaffles 23

Sunday 1 May 2016 18:00

Throw some DIY coffee packs on her desk and tell her she can make her own coffee.

Comments

laurellkawes 31

Monday 2 May 2016 2:31

I have a feeling we're not hearing the whole story, especially since she complained to HR. I think he was overly creepy and may have possibly been scarily watching her "from afar" for her to be so rude

laurellkawes 31

Monday 2 May 2016 2:34

I have a feeling we're not hearing the whole story, especially since she complained to HR. I wonder if he thought she was rude and cold because she said "No" and he reacted badly to her refusal to go out with him

teamnikster 9

Monday 2 May 2016 2:53

Yeah, no one's fault really. Not her's for misinterpreting, not yours for potentially coming off too strong. Really, it's just a bad situation. Don't fret, OP.

zezili 18

Monday 2 May 2016 9:28

If she had grounds to file a complaint, YDI. I'd have just pressed the Button if there was one.

writerchic85 25

Monday 2 May 2016 12:22

He was referencing an snl sketch

FMLL2016 16

Monday 2 May 2016 14:35

You were probably creepy

darkfalling1 1

Tuesday 3 May 2016 4:12

Someone liked me at one job and it was awkward having my biggest fan constantly hitting on me. I was in a relationship. Tried to play it all off as a joke. Didn't stop him trying to make moves on me one day. Stopped talking to them altogether after that. Creepy. Then there was another guy who would touch my hips. I laid a complaint about him. Some men think attractive women owe it to them to put up with their advances. Nah. They can actually go get lost. I'm at work to work.

AspieGirl88 7

Tuesday 3 May 2016 5:38

Filed a complaint simply because she didn't like being asked to go for a coffee? Talk about overkill. She obviously wasn't taught the value of good manners when she was growing up! I would've at least said yes to the one coffee (as it's not like it was declared an official date or an orgy, FFS)! Don't get upset over her, though as there are lots of nice ladies out there that I'm sure would at least take you up on your offer. =o)

InfiniteSecret 20

Tuesday 8 August 2017 18:13

The OP could've not taken being rejected well or did something to cause them to go to HR. I highly doubt we got the whole story.

JackFaire 27

Friday 6 May 2016 9:33

Do. Not. Ask. Out. Coworkers. Seriously just about every company in the United States puts this in the Employee Handbooks. It's sexual harassment. The reason we ask people on dates is because we want to have sex with them at some point so asking a co-worker out is telling them "I want to have sex with you"