By Anonymous - 21/02/2016 19:02 - United States - North Scituate

Today, I found a picture of my ex with a new boyfriend. This wouldn't be so bad if she didn't break up with me because she was lesbian. FML
I agree, your life sucks 22 456
You deserved it 1 871

Same thing different taste

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she was probably just looking for an excuse to break up with you, OP. If she lied to you like that, you're better off without her anyways. You can do better.

Plot twist: Op's girlfriend's new boyfriend is actually a girl

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Maybe when she was with you and no longer finding you attractive she only felt comfortable crushing on other women because that felt 'safe', but when she was out of the relationship the lack of guilt about it let her develop feelings for a man. Your right to any judgement on who she dates ended when your relationship did. Man or woman, she's clearly moved on. You seem to need to accept that sometimes relationships end just because one person doesn't feel as passionately about the other anymore, sometimes you don't get a fully satisfactory reason why.

Damn. The classic "I'm gay/lesbian" excuse to get out of a relationship because they don't have the guts to just say that they aren't in love anymore. I'm sorry. I hope your next relationship is way better.

ezrajab 22

To hell with her! Sorry op you will find someone new too bad she is too much of a chicken shit to tell you tho!

saffy66 34

Are you sure it's a guy, and not a very masculine looking girl? Otherwise, maybe she just wanted to break up with you and have you not feel bad about it - or she was afraid you'd be persistent in trying to win her back.

Lesbians can date men, too. It's just a label that grossly oversimplifies all the complex nuances of human sexuality. You can choose your label, but you can't choose who you're attracted to.

Helldemon 32

Nope, try again. If she's attracted to a man then she's not a lesbian.

AdamTodddBrown 11

An ex is an ex. Get the **** over it.

bitchez man. I had a girl who seemed incredibly into me, agreed to go out, we texted constantly for a few days, we had slept together, and then "I'm not looking/ready for a relationship" blah blah. proceeds to not speak or respond to me in over a month, and gets into a relationship with some other guy. you know, that thing she "wasn't ready for". being single's kind of great about 90% of the time though, you'll be okay OP. Remember, she couldn't even be honest with you when you broke up, ie, she's garbage.

Maybe women don't like you because you refer to them as 'bitchez' and can't spell. Also, why are you continually trying to contact her for over a month? Leave her be!

Oh you misunderstand, I refer to bitches as bitches, not all women, just the ones who are deserving of the title. I can spell just fine, I misspelled a single word on purpose, but whatever. as for contacting her, I replied to her text once, got no response, sent another text a week later, and then didn't hear from her again. I wasn't continuously texting her for a month, I sent 2 texts a week apart over a month ago, and that's it. I'm not going to waste my time trying to contact someone who was clearly just ignoring me. I'm sure lots of women like me, just not ones I like, and I tend to like women who don't like me, dating is RNG bs, lol.

Maybe it's just a masculine looking woman?