By young grandpa - 17/06/2013 22:49 - United States - Statham

Today, I found out I'm going to be a grandfather. I'm 29, my son is 13 and the girl in question is 16. FML
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Same thing different taste

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Jackasss_fml 14

Now if your grandson gets a child, you'll have done what takes most a century to do, in less than half. Congrats, future great grandpa!

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Kinda stupid to complain considering you did the same thing. You were 16 when you had him. Wow.

You were 16 when you had your son so...

It really fascinates me how the 13-year-old knew how sex works. At 14, I didn't even know what sex was, let alone where things went and how it got girls pregnant.

Stephano186 8

Lol not only is that weird but it's rare(honestly I've seen this happen before)

Well damn at least the kids getting the good

Wait a minute...OP is 29 now. He had a kid when he was 16. His son's girlfriend is 16, so.....

So therefore he'll either be 42 or 45 when he becomes a great-grandpa, and will be in his 60's when he becomes a great-great-grandpa.

I get the feeling the definition of the word hypocrite comes in here

My barely 6 year old daughter knows the basics of where babies come from. as she gets older, she will learn more. We are also teaching her how hard babies are to raise, and how expensive. She also knows that smoking is bad for you, alcohol is only for adults and even then only in small quantities and why, that drugs are bad, that medicine should only be taken if you really need it. She knows what death is, and when the possible consequense of what she does or what we re talking about is death, we tell her. We ask questions to make sure she understands. If my daughter gets pregnant as a teen, it wont be because she "didnt know better", it will be be because she CHOSE to take the risk of unprotected sex, because the protection failed, or because she was forced. Her Dad and I are already discussing that when she turns 13 or has her first period (whichever is first unless she has early onset puberty) we will start stocking condoms which she will be able to access by herself without permission, no questions. dispite the fact that i morally disagree with chemical contraceptives, were even discussing whether to offer her the option of BC...tho she may be on it anyway as true medication if she experiences as much pain as seems to run in my family. She will never get in trouble for having sex, as long as she isnt breaking rules to do so. and then its the breaking rules that will be the issue, not the sex. She will have every oportunity and reason to be mature about it (both discussing it and practicing safe sex) , and none to be irresponsible. If we ever have a son, the only difference in our treatment of him will be it will be mostly his dad that discusses it with him instead of me, and obviously no chemical BC as thats a female thing. So people, learn this if the current generations annoy you...always tell the truth to your children if at all possible. start young. If youre female and they ask what your tampon is or why your bleeding, answer truthfully, at there level but not dumbed down. for example, a 2yr old asks. a decent answer would be "Its a different kind of blood. mommy isnt hurt, her body just is cleaning out inside so when shes ready to make a new baby, her tummy will be ready." a 5 yr old: "Its my (tummy, womb, uterus, depending on their vocabulary...dont say stomach!) getting rid of the old stuff inside so it can make a new home for a baby if we decide to have one. It does it every month so theres always one ready when it needs one" add a comparison they will understand....cleaning out the old litter from the litterbox if you have a cat, or cleaning out the fridge or pantry...whatever they will understand. If they grow up knowing the birds and bees, and that its ok to talk about it and that you will always answer truthfully, that cuts out ALOT of the problems. Note:Does not apply to truth about mythological figures. that, you can fib about :p