By juno_op - 11/02/2013 18:17 - United Kingdom - Birmingham
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Hiii, I'm the OP. thanks for all the lovely comments, although there's a few that aren't very nice. I'm 24 btw, not 16, and I did use birth control, but you do know it's only 99% safe, right? These things can sadly happen. And we broke up because he was going.
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My father was barely there for my brother and I and we turned out fine, my Mam done a great job raising us by herself, so if the Father doesn't want to move back from Japan or doesn't want to see the kid, I'm sure the kid will turn out just fine. You don't necessarily need both parents in your life
guess he knows the future
Just have an abortion :/
Oh Japan, hey welcome to the Hentai world.
Any time you have sex, protected or not, on the pill or not you chance bringing a child into the world. It's BOTH of your responsibilities. If he's even half a man he'll pay to support the child & if YOU are half a woman you won't spend it on clothes, booze, or other shit like some people I know.
I hope you can find a way to make it work with the father OP. Although it is better to have both parents in a child's life, if it can't be done it can't be done and I'm sure you'll do a great job. Just remember to try and get as much support from your family, and if possible, his family, as you can!
OP, best of luck w/ everything!
Have you not read her comments? She did! Perhaps read things properly before you make sly sarcastic comments. No protection is 100%.
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Some how he figured it out before you did and he got the heck out of dodge!
I hope for your baby's sake that you two broke up on good terms, and that it wasn't a really rough split. If you choose to have your baby your ex can still help you provide for him/her, it just won't be as simple since he's in another country. Good luck, OP. Definitely a tough situation.