By Anonymous - 18/03/2014 14:56 - Japan

Today, I found out my ex just got engaged to a girl he met 3 months ago, shortly before he ended our 5 year relationship. His reason for breaking up was that he didn't believe in marriage and couldn't be with someone who wanted to get married. Right. FML
I agree, your life sucks 48 791
You deserved it 4 058

Same thing different taste

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I see this as a good thing because you almost married him.

ariiewilliams 17

What an ass. At least you ended ot so you wouldn't have to be with someone so two-faced

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He met her before you broke up. I'm not saying he did anything with her, just met.

That's not really what's relevant in the FML

jazzy_123 20

actually it might be. It's possible he was talking to her before dumping OP and he needed a lame excuse to break up with her. He obviously didn't care what excuse seeing as how ironic it was.

I'm wondering if there's a surprise pregnancy in their future where the math may not quite work out...

toastedbagel14 3

Well, that's one out of your life. Still, if he's jumping into marriage with someone else, it sounds as if he used that as an excuse to get out of a relationship with you because he knew it would be a deal-breaker. Still, it was a pathetic way to go about things, but it makes one wonder if there was another reason. Maybe he didn't want to come clean as a cheater.

Of course he used it as an excuse, Sherlock. But we really don't know much more about either him or her or their relationship.

Better yet let's let karma take care of his sorry ass instead of making rash and equally immature decisions.

YellowKettleBell 31

Better this way, than him cheating on you after you're married.

3 months ?! oh hell no that realtionship will end faster before they can even say i do dont worry hun karmas a bitch xD

You are definitely better off without him but that must have hurt like hell. I feel for you OP!

Of they've only known each other 3 months their marriage is going to crumble then he will come crawling back to you. Use your power wisely

...OR, they will be happy ever after and OP should just get over it and get on with her own life.

Most likely not. There's a small chance but to need to know someone before you make a life commitment

ilovemy3babies 5

I had something like this happen. He refused marriage and children. I left him because he didn't wanna 'grow up'. A month later knocked some chick up and married her. It's cool though. I'm married and have 3 beautiful children and trying for a 4th...He is divorced. Glad it wasn't me that married him!!

I see what you mean, but wouldn't marriage and children have come up well into the first few dates you had together? If those things are deal-breakers for you, there's no obligation to stay in the relationship. I'm glad you moved on and found someone who wanted those things, but trying to change someone who doesn't isn't the answer, whether or not you consider it "grown-up" or in their best interests.