OP, your cooking is "merely" the simplest excuse that he gave her for not leaving you, a skill that either of them could easily learn if willing to put in the effort. I'm certain that there's plenty of OTHER positive reasons regarding you that he DIDN'T want to mention in order to keep her interest. Nonetheless, he broke your trust after not being man enough to stop paying her attention after Minute #1. (Much less Day #90!) As painful as it is (and for which you have my earnest sympathies), it's better that you found out now before too late. As the great personal advice columnist Ann Landers stated, "It's much better to wish that you weren't alone - than to wish that you were...." Best of luck, OP! :-) [BTW, you can always cook for me anytime that you like - to keep those skills sharp. ;-) LOL --Humor: It's a hell of a thing! Shared between friends esp. in times of need or pain.]

So cook him a last meal and kick his ass to the curb **** him he can be replaced it, only hurt for a while but let his ass go