By TheFreyzy - 20/02/2015 07:40 - Switzerland

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Today, I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time. Even after several hours I wasn't able to climax. My girlfriend now thinks that I don't like her body, and the reason I couldn't orgasm is because I don't like having sex with her. We spend the rest of the night in silence. FML
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AfroFluff tells us more.

Hello everybody, here is your Afro OP. First I want to say thank you for all the ones who gave me helpful advise, also this happened a while ago. I wanted to see what you guys write because I felt like I am doing something wrong. Thank you guys who wasn't trying to criticise my girlfriend. She did not throw a tantrum, nor was she mad. Some of you are right, she is insecure and that makes her silent. Well let me tell you guys what happened afterwards so I can calm you all down :) We had sex again and again and let me tell you I am less nervous but I am still not able to cum xD. She understands though it has nothing to do with me disliking her body, we had a calm discussion. Thank you again for everybody who was supportive, to be honest I was shy to post my first FML and I did not expect so many people to comment! I am excited for the next post I will make. Who knows what it will be. Afro is with you all!

Top comments

cooltatgar 31

Discuss the matter, try explaining to her what really happened. That's better for your relationship.

I'm sorry for your experience OP. I'm sure she'll come round and be more understanding.

Comments

find a way to Talk if you wanna save that relationship!!

jew_lala 11

Watching and jacking off too much to **** can condition your body to only ****** that way. If your a hardcore porno/ ************ guy give that a rest for a while and see what happens

Dude its all just because you're nervous, happens to a lot of guys. Don't feel bad just tell her

it's about the journey, not the destination :) enjoy the ride! you can still pleasure each other without worrying about the end result lol

man always care about ******, ladies care about the feeling and emotion .

Ironically in this situation I cared about the feeling and emotion and she cared about the ******

118: As a lady, I can tell you that I do rather care about the ******. Women enjoy the physical side of sex too y'know, it's not just about the emotion.