Not to alarm you but my friend since high school had a wife just like yours, guess what she was doing while he was working. ******* someone lower than scum that didn't even have a stable job, selfish bitches. Do some investigating before you kill youself everyday for " the love of your life". Ijs

So basically you're not a man and can't speak up? You should prolly grow a pair sometime soon or you'll be in for a longggggg relationship

Because he was sick, I can sympathize with OP...but I have also been in a relationship in which, as a college student, my significant other and I would return home around the same time but that I was expected to do all the housework because he worked, and to him me being at school meant that "all I do is sit on my ass all day anyway." Now I'm dating someone who's in college full time while I work, and we split the housework equally!

****... It know how it feels, single now hahahaha u dont do shit after work

Try having kids also.

Try working 12-16 hour shifts 7 days a week plus coming home to take care of your 10 month old run a small business on the side plus do all the housework and your school work Welcome to my life

@#89, Not doing housework because it's her "time of the month?" Are you ******* kidding me? Do you know how insulting that is to us women who have learned to deal with our menstrual pain when shit needs to get done???

i don't see what is so unfair about this either. First she is working to get a degree which she will use to get a job and make money, so just because at the moment you are working doesn't mean she isn't doing things to improve your lives together in the long run as a married couple. You are downplaying education, and frankly society needs education. Second have you guys made a plan for who does chores and when? If not then how can you be angry that she isnt doing something she hasnt agreed to? It sucks being sick but its not your wifes fault. You downplaying the things she does is evil, you are downplaying something she is spending lots of time and energy trying to achieve, a degree and career. So yes it would've been nice for her to help you, but they way you act i wouldn't. If my boyfriend said the things i care about and try hard for are not equally as important as his (like my shcool and his career) then i would think he was to egotistical and sexist. Be a man and support your wife, not a little whining bitch.

Maybe you should grow a pair and crack the whip on that bitch

I don't understand women these days and I'm one myself. Don't you say "for better or for worse through sickness and in health", doesn't that apply that yall are supposed to take care of one another, regardless of how "tired" you are from doing almost nothing! & from what I know from my boyfriend getting sick you guys get it hard! You guys need some tender, love and care when you're sick. In all seriousness that wasn't fair to you OP.