By Singleagain - 19/04/2016 12:01 - Sint Maarten (Dutch part) - Philipsburg

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Today, I learned that not texting my girlfriend for two days is considered dumping her, and is ample reason to screw other men. FML
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Same thing different taste

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Well, this depends, did you just not text or completely cease communication for no reason? She's still overreacting, but I might be a little peeved too, if my boyfriend dropped off the planet with no explanation for two days.

Is there any reason for the lack of contact? Had you been fighting before? This needs follow up

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You just out my one girlfriend into this. thank you

PANDORUM89 21

honestly with how popular ghosting is, I don't blame her. I am not the type to linger though. if I try to talk to you and you don't respond for 2 days then you can kiss my butt. I'll have moved on immediately and wouldn't think twice about you. if he needed personal space then he shouldve said something. and depending on how long they've been dating it could be a not so surprising move. if my bf stopped talking to me today I'd think he was injured and I'd freak out, because we've been together for 3 years. after a month or so of dating though... eh. bye!

Uhhh yeah...? Why would you not talk to her?

Every person who say they'd get mad too if their lover didn't talk to them for a day or two, guys, don't be so clingy, it's dating, not a fusion, you don't need to be stuck to each other or on the phone every day. I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 years with sometimes, periods of up to 5 days not texting each other mostly because of his job. We are still perfectly fine and i don't get mad at him for that, he's often very tired and i'm not going to keep him up just because "i'm his girlfriend and he should make time to talk to me." All the people here are grown up, stop acting like a bunch of 5 years old. People having busy lifestyles, families, friends and sometimes just nothing interesting to tell. Being in a relationship is supposed to make two people happy, it never meant "talk to each other all the time, ignore your family, live your friends and quit your job."

There are 24 hours in a day, taking 2 seconds to let your SO know that you're thinking of them can mean the world to them. As silly as it may seem to you, that doesn't make them clingy.

Yes it does, every relationship i've been in where the guy did that lasted less that 2 weeks, because at first it's cute, then it quickly becomes extremely annoying. You just end up getting to a point where you're sick of it, where the closest you get to a conversation look like "sorry i'm busy" or "hey what's up i'm good i love you too". And then cry about it like all these people who ask "how could our relationship come to this ???" Well it came to this because you're clingy as hell, to the point of thinking it's absolutely necessary to text each other every ******* day. People wonder why relationships these days don't last ? Stop wondering, you got your answer. You start dating okay everything is great and then the guy starts texting you every day, it takes 2 seconds yes, "hi baby" "i'm thinking of you" "i love you have a good day" and every day it goes "hi" "me too" "i love you too" and it become really annoying to HAVE to do that everyday because of course if you don't reply you get the whole "you don't care about me". So times goes on and every day it "i'm busy" "i can't talk right now" "aww" "ok" "yeah me too", wow great relationship goals. If i want to get the very same thing every time we meet up and have him stuck to me displaying affection all the time and not able to spend a day without any contact with me, i have a dog who already does it. When i'm in a relationship however i expect a man, not a dog.

I have been in a happy relationship for almost 15 years now. I have talked to my husband every single day since we met, even if it is a 2 second hello, or good night, or I love you. It's really not hard, and if you find an I love you text annoying, you have bigger issues. I know life gets busy, but that is the wonder of technology, and texting. So that if its been a busy day, and you can't talk to your SO, you can take 2 seconds out of your existence to make them smile.

And if that is your every day conversation as well, then you have way bigger relationship issues. Communication is a huge part of a relationship, and one of the most important. If you can not even text a simple good night at the end of a busy day... I just really don't see the issue, and is no way a single text in a day clingy. But I guess ultimately it depends on you, your SO, and your relationship. So I'm going to agree to disagree with you, and wish you the best in whatever relationship you deem worthy of yourself.

Kristoffer 35

What if you don't want to screw other men?

Correct me if I'm wrong O.P I'm just assuming but what if he cheated on her....... I'm js it's possible. But it's also possible you were busy tired just didn't want to talk or maybe she is clincially insane.

Even IF he cheated on her first, her cheating on him isn't exactly a solution.

It seems to be perfectly clear that you were on a break.

Try texting her back she'll probably answer.