It's not like it said Bob(the one I'm cheating on my boyfriend Bob with). So she thought someone was cute? Maybe it was before she met you. He could have come across it while looking for someone else's number. If she willingly gave him her phone, I doubt she had evidence of cheating on it, so it's probably harmless. If he came across it while snooping, YDI, and it's probably still harmless. No, I don't have a double standard because I think it's wrong for males or females to snoop through their SO's private affairs. I don't do that, and I'm a female, so this "girls do it ALL the time" nonsense really means "the kind of girls that I choose to associate with do it ALL the time!". As long as she wasn't looking through his things, then there's no double standard to say that he shouldn't be looking through hers.

every time i read something like this I think "they deserve it" simply because if you're with someone who treats you poorly it's your fault for putting up with it or getting into a relationship before you realize how shitty that person is. So yeah, you deserve it...ya shouldn't have been lookin through her shit anyway.

YDI for going through her stuff. You look at stuff you shouldn't be looking at, you may find something you don't like. Oh, and curiosity killed the cat.

Bitch her out. On second thought, why the hell were you snooping through her shit??

Are you sure it wasnt your old number ? :P Just wanted to make sure. And also "cute" means 'nice but ugly', so your safe.

Well here's the thing; as guys we hate this kind of thing but women see this as perfectly ok. So if you feel like breaking up with her over it don't tell her why, because they'll always make you look like the asshole. Have fun with that one.

And the **** thing about it is that if you put "cute girl" on your phone and she saw it she would raise hell about it, that's the way it always is...

you have a dumb girlfriend if she can't hide her contacts better than that....

I wanna say fyl but u shuldnt be looking through her stuff

ha! what did your number have beside it!?