By outthelabyrynth - 17/03/2014 19:41 - Netherlands - Egelshoek
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First things first: I'm a girl, and I'm not a prostitute. (That would pay much better, though) I work at a restaurant with several managers who are all quite nice, but she's the boss of the whole restaurant so she's in charge of everything. Now the thing is, she's quite nice to everyone... Except to me. I don't know what she has against me, but working with her is like getting a constant shitstorm over you. Always mean comments, giving me the worst tasks, and no matter how I improve myself, it's never good enough. She keeps telling me I'm too stupid to work there (which I'm not, I have higher qualifications than everyone there, but I need the money to save up for college) and when other people make a mistake, she blames me for it. At this restaurant, when you want to quit, you have to tell her personally. The worst she can do is indeed yell at me. I'm not a shy person, but when people get angry at me or start yelling, I get really quiet and submissive and I feel like shit. I'll probably search for another job first, and then make up a believable story for why I want to quit, so she can't get too mad at me. Thanks for all the support and I'll do my best to stand up!
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Stand up to her and quit your job. You'll feel better once you've done it I'm sure.
Stop being a weenie and man up!!!!
Don't you usually have to give a letter of resignation and at least 2 weeks notice for quitting? That's tough in an email.
Send the email with your letter and state that your taking your hollidays in leu of 2 weeks notice
BUURRRRRRN THE PLACE DOWN!!!!!! no actually just tell her you quit! theres nothing she can do so no reason to be afraid
What's she gonna do spank ya. Then again you might like it. Grow a pair !!
In this case, goto the HR, they will process the resignation for you. worst case scenario, she will yell and you can then sue her for harrassment. Viel Glück!
Bit of a catch 22 here. Want to quit because you're scared, but too afraid to quit. I hope you get up the courage to leave. Best of luck. I know what it's like to have a shitty job -_-
If you don't need a reference just stop showing up. That sounds like a terrible enviroment to be in.
look at it this way, once you quit you never have to fear her again. good luck!
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Just quit and then RUN. You can make it OP :)
Unless you work for a bounty hunting firm, firm up and quit. Being so scared at work is hardly worth it.