By outthelabyrynth - 17/03/2014 19:41 - Netherlands - Egelshoek

Today, I realized I'm so scared of my manager that I don't even dare to quit my job. The same job I want to quit exactly because I'm so scared of her. FML
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outthelabyrynth tells us more.

First things first: I'm a girl, and I'm not a prostitute. (That would pay much better, though) I work at a restaurant with several managers who are all quite nice, but she's the boss of the whole restaurant so she's in charge of everything. Now the thing is, she's quite nice to everyone... Except to me. I don't know what she has against me, but working with her is like getting a constant shitstorm over you. Always mean comments, giving me the worst tasks, and no matter how I improve myself, it's never good enough. She keeps telling me I'm too stupid to work there (which I'm not, I have higher qualifications than everyone there, but I need the money to save up for college) and when other people make a mistake, she blames me for it. At this restaurant, when you want to quit, you have to tell her personally. The worst she can do is indeed yell at me. I'm not a shy person, but when people get angry at me or start yelling, I get really quiet and submissive and I feel like shit. I'll probably search for another job first, and then make up a believable story for why I want to quit, so she can't get too mad at me. Thanks for all the support and I'll do my best to stand up!

Top comments

colton_colton 49

Just quit and then RUN. You can make it OP :)

Wizardo 33

Unless you work for a bounty hunting firm, firm up and quit. Being so scared at work is hardly worth it.

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Just stop coming in to work, problem solved. Just make sure to leave a steamy chud on your bosses' desk for good measure. Good luck OP.

That's not healthy mate. You should not be scared of people.

You gotta man up and quit if you're too scared of your boss to work.

Just quit, the worst that can happen is you getting fired :p

Just like an abusive relationship.

veritoswty6 14

I can totally relate to this, first things first. Always keep in mind, it's a job, nobody owns you, and you can quit the job whenever you want. Or just leave and then maybe after a week show up demanding your check.

happyfingers 15

You wanna live in fear or you wanna find a job you can feel safe and comfortable? Just suck it up for 5 mins and it'll be over with.

What's she going to do if you quit. Legally she can't do a thing to stop you.

My manager is scary too if you want to quit just have him let you go that's what I did