By anon - 28/09/2015 03:27 - United States - Orange Park

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Today, I thought my wife and I would reconcile after being separated for eight months. We ended up sleeping together after a dinner date, but she told told me afterwards that she still wanted a divorce. FML
I agree, your life sucks 26 034
You deserved it 2 748

Same thing different taste

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nonsensical 26

Some things you just can't change. It's unfortunate we can't always tell what the other person is feeling. At least you were able to enjoy a nice date with your wife before the divorce. Good luck with what comes next--if you look at it as an exciting new start with the next part of your life it may make things a tiny bit easier!

Sorry to hear OP. But now you know where you stand. Chin up and move on. It's rough when you still care for that person. But for self preservation purposes...It needs to be done.

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Ouch.That's the worst kind of break up sex. Sorry OP, I hope you two can work it out. And if you can't, I hope that you can find someone that makes you just as happy as she did when you're ready.

think it's mean of her to sleep with you and get your hopes up like that

That sucks OP, but some things can't just be fixed through sex. Unfortunately this was one of them

I know the feeling. For me it was the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with in my life, but one morning I woke up and felt a lot better about things, and it got easier after that.

I think the sex will make things harder to accept, but time to move on.

Unfortunately though, he probably will be going back to the not having sex ways of the past.

maybe she just needed to see if that spark was still there. sorry to hear it didn't work. sometimes love just doesn't last. time to dust yourself off and keep it moving. best of luck to you.

I'm sorry OP... I read this FML & broke down crying because I am going through the exact thing only switched rolls! My husband wanted the separation, we are still close friends and I love him more than ever, we had sex last week and since then has been holding fast to his decision that we need to divorce! My world is in a million pieces and I'm not sure if I will ever be able to trust/love again! You are not alone in the world OP! I am learning to say " I'm surviving!" :-)

Why all the downvotes? She is sympathetic to OP's cause...

I'm sorry to hear that for you and Op. I do hope things get better soon.

Holy crap ... and just like that, the thumbs reverse to the positive. Jeez.

olpally 32

Pity sex... Take what you can get! Lol. Sorry though. That hurts.

leogachi 15

@27 It's possible, but she was probably just horny.