Don't dump him, have him arrested.

There's so many people whining about how they must not have been paying attention to their statements and "deserve" it as a result. Aside from the fact no one deserves theft and fraud for such a thing, has it never occured to any of the people commenting that that perhaps it was the first month he did that?? It's obvious that with something like that happening so much, someone would notice, so the crook probably hits, does a bunch of purchases like that, then runs off to a new target, like so many other crooks. Maybe his name and all that they know him as isn't even the real one. He'd probably be gone before they even noticed, like so many con-artists, but she happened to be lucky and check the computer by accident. Remember, she found the purchases ia the invoices in his mail, so she probably didn't receive the statements with those purchases yet, or she'd have gone check on them. Statements only come once a month. It's obviously not a YDI case, it's a case of being conned by a fraudulent jerk who used his proximity to the girl to sneak into her credit cards and her parents, and use it all.

For all we know this could have been done in a one month period and she hasnt seen her statement yet. I would call the police and have him arrested. I can't help but wonder if he's done this to anyone else.

Well.... Happy Birthday!

Way to check your bank statements regularly. Your parents taught you well.

Michelle, baby, it was all for you. Don't be an ungrateful ****!! You have champagne wishes and caviar dreams and I only have a $250 limit on my starter Visa card. Give me another chance. I'll take you away for the weekend - your Dad has that one card with the $30k limit we can use to go somewhere nice.

Man, this makes me love my crdit card company so very much. When someone stole my cc # and tried to use it online, they immedietly saw that it was not a normal purchase for me, put a hold on my cc and called to have me call them and go through my purchases to make sure it wasn't me. I as shocked because it was the same day so no way I was going to be able to tell my # was stolen for about a month if they hadn't have done that for me. They cancelled my card and snt me a new one. Doesn't any cc companies in the states do this for their customers or does this just depend on what bank you get it through????

So it's pretty much done, rite?

what Dose OP mean ?

OP means Original Poster.. Ok so first off, I don't know many people that go and hide their wallets when they get home. Hell my bag usually ends up thrown on the floor when I get home from work and so it's not like she should have been super suspicious of her boyfriend that he would steal her information from her purse. Also she might not have seen her statement even online as of then. I know when I purchase things on my credit card through my bank things don't show up on the statement sometimes for up to a week. It will show there is a difference in my available credit, but wont put the exact balance and where the purchases were made for a while usually 3 days or more. So if the guy made a bunch of purchases in a hurry but not enough to tip off her creditcard company it is very possible for him to get away with it. The thing that sucks is some credit card companies depending on the fine print will force her to pay for the bill regardless of whether she actually purchased the items or not, while other companies might negate the bill for her. I still wonder how he got her parents' card info... Either way I hope she sues his ass and he ends up in jail.