By gunnerette - 21/12/2014 08:30 - Cyprus - Larnaca
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#35 couldn't have said it better myself. Confused, or not he still used her as a 'beard' without permission. He shouldn't take his hangups out in someone else. If it were me I don't think I would forgive them.
Did you offer to jam something up his ass?
I don't get how most people are saying that OP should continue being supportive and stay friends. This is any different from any normal relationship being over. The fact he's gay won't miraculously change the fact she has feelings for him. I don't think OP has to stay friends with the ex. Because whatever the reason it may be that the relationship is over he's still an ex and she might be feeling hurt and not want to stay close which I honestly completely understand.
Goblin182
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I have read this FML several times, where is everyone getting that OP is supportive of him being gay? I get she was being supportive of him when she thought is was just anxiety over not being able to have sex with her, but after he announced he was gay? There is no indication of her reaction other than to say, "**** her life".
It is different.. A regular breakup they can go about their business but if he reacted like this to realizing he's gay and tried to date a girl he NEEDS support. If she would have been hurt(though she seems to be very understanding) I would hope she tried to get him to people who could be supportive before cutting ties.
Hesher
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Oh, poor you, you wasted your time in a relationship. He has to endure a lifetime of hate and death threats. Yeah, if this happened to you, I wouldn't feel bad for you.
is he pulling a Mel Gibson in "what women want"?
What a jerk for leading you on like that...
kirbs19
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GBF!!!!
But baby i am delivert
Look at the bright side, at least it means he doesn't think you look like a guy!
You need a man like me who isn't gay
You've got to be kidding me. Who are you to decide what OP needs?
A07
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Apparently #76, he's the man who isn't gay.
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just be supportive. you may be the first person he's told.
FYL, but F his life too. It does suck that your relationship's essentially over, but if you care about him, try to do your best to support him. It sounds like he's either fighting with it, or has kept it in. I hope things work out for both of you OP!