By marisacb - 13/03/2013 18:52 - United States

Today, I was hanging out with my best friend. Depressed, I started telling her about my terrible week. A woman came over and asked me to not be so "whiny and negative" in front of her children. FML
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Not sure whether depressing stuff should be discussed in public, but then again you probably have/had bigger worries at that time. Good thing you're talking about it to somebody, though. It's the first step on the way to getting over the depression.

sofitina 20

Whether or not you were being Bitch, whiny, annoying, etc. that's still not something you say to someone. People these days are rude. Couldn't she have moved her child away and such? Sigh, people.

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That's...not how conversations work. Just because a person is having a conversation in a public place, that doesn't give random strangers the right to tell them what they can and can't talk about. That's called being a rude asshole.

starcrossddream 14

Come on now! No negativity in front of the kids. They must believe in a perfect world with fairy princesses and Santa Clause until they are at least 25. What is wrong with you OP?!

Should've told her to mind her own business, and tell her children to stop eavesdropping on other people's conversations. It's not just all about her.

Tell her to butt the hell out of your conversation. She has no right to tell you what you can and can't talk about while you're in public.

You should have looked her in the eyes and said here is a big bag of **** off.

I mean the woman was rude, but that's no reason to swear at her. Also, why would you swear in front of that woman's innocent little children?

^really? I seriously hope that was sarcasm. I would've told her to **** off, and that what I said was my business. If she didn't want to here it, she shouldn't have started talking to me.

AngelicTide 11

Tell her to take her kids somewhere else then! A public place is just that PUBLIC! She can deal with it.

I don't see anything wrong with this if you were just having a normal conversation. You said the woman had to walk over to you to complain so I don't see why she and her kids couldn't have just walked away if it was that irritating.

Smile! Be happy ALL THE TIME! Because if you're not happy, then some random strangers' kids who don't know you from a hole in the ground might be PSYCHOLOGICALLY TRAUMATISED and we don't want that! So smile all the time even as your brain crumbles from the despair and worry that you are experiencing until bugs come out of the walls and sometimes you sometimes feel like your body isn't yours and you want to kill yourself, but that's not a problem really! You can't let small children know that people are unhappy, even though this will probably cause them maybe five minutes of slightly down thoughts if it even registers with them! So smile! Be happy! You can't be miserable in public! It's for the good of society!* *Society doesn't care if you fake-smile yourself crazy. Just don't bother anyone else with it.

Being open with depression is actually the best way to treat it. So keep talking about it as long as someone is willing to listen.

Forget about her children, you need to get your feelings out!