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Well first of all, stop ******* fishing for compliments if you don't want to hear some of the possible answers. Secondly, so what? He tried to cheer you up, and basically told you he'd stick with you either way. You got a real man there. Stop wallowing in your puddle of self-pity and see that.
Your boyfriend is lying to you. Guys don't really like rolls or double chins. Some people are going to get all defensive and say " but meat on the bones is good " or "a big ass and large thighs are nice" but you'll notice that no one specifically says "stomach rolls, wobbly arms, double chins, or back fat is cute" So, it's undeniable that if you have the rolls, chins etc then your junk in the trunk is no longer appealing. Guys who make general statements like " I like my women with 'cushion'", are either hoping to score brownie points with fat chicks for potential easy sex, or they mean that they like for that cushion to be on the ass, thighs, and breasts only. Let's be honest. Fat stomachs, backs, faces, chins, arms, hands, feet, and genitals just don't look appetizing on women. lol.
There's a difference between obese and chubby. Men (and women) can easily be chubby chasers in that aspect. People say "chubby chaser" because people have some weird ideal that you're fat if you're not skinny as a rail. Hell, some people STILL say you're fat when you're skinny as a rail.
That sort of fat doesn't look good on a man either.
so what?? my husband tells that to me and I don't get mad cuz I know he finds me attractive
agree w/#1
dump the insensitive asshole!
So where is the problem? You know you are fat, and he knows you are fat.
chubby girls that dont have cellulite or stretch marks can be real hot.
I don't get where the problem is? I've always been self concious about my weight, but the guy I'm sleeping with loves my weight, and he's a bit of a chubby chaser. You should be happy, honey, he's happy with the way you look so I say just enjoy life and don't listen to the insensitive people who tell you you deserve it! I bet you aren't even that fat, just curvy. Most guys prefer girls with a bit of meat on them over bikes with lipstick! :) xxx
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Oh god, your boyfriend finds you attractive? That's terrible.
YDI for fishing for complements and wanting your boyfriend to say "you are really thin" , but you know you are FAT.