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1- YDI for whining to your boyfriend about your weight. We effing HATE that. 2- Your life is not effed, because now you can relax and eat a whole pizza to yourself every once in a while, without your bf being all, "eww, you're getting chunky."
Whining about your weight is only excusable if you have a thyroid problem or you're in the process of losing it. The first three weeks of a new diet don't count. Either lose the extra pounds or deal with it.
YDI - fishing for compliments, what do you expect?
You kinda deserve it because if your so self conscious about your weight then why don't you do something about it? You're lucky you have such a kind boyfriend. Would you seriously prefer it if he had of said 'don't be silly, you're tiny' when you know for a fact you're not. You must lead such a hard life having a boyfriend that obviously cares for you, finds you attractive and doesn't lie to make you feel better, but instead tells you the truth AND that he loves you because of it, not in spite of it.
I get that we live in a culture in which being fat is unacceptable, but there's really nothing wrong with being chubby or even fat. You're much better off eating well and being active for yourself and your health than with the goal of losing weight, and accepting yourself for you you are. Clearly your boyfriend does..
she wouldn't be fat if she was healthy and ate right, she would only be slightly overweight (which still isn't good, but some people, esp. those that were fat growing up can't get the weight off). OP should not accept herself if she is fat or even chubby, she should try to improve herself. Having said that, she should not expect to become underweight, seeing as that is just as unhealthy, and she should still love everything else about her (e.g. if she is smart, orfunny, or has pretty eyes) But being fat (or chubby) is not acceptable because there are serious health issues involved with being overweight, and in todays society it is more acceptable to be heavier, even pant sizes have gone down (but are increasing in size) to make us feel better about getting fatter, which is a serious issue in modernized populations
At least he likes you for who you are. You're lucky to have a man so willing to look beyond the standard of "My girlfriend must weigh less than 100 lbs."
Just how hard would you kick his ass?!? Btw, I think you're fat too ;)
Plenty of whales in the sea! Chubby is nice.
He said not to worry the gallant pig??
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Oh god, your boyfriend finds you attractive? That's terrible.
YDI for fishing for complements and wanting your boyfriend to say "you are really thin" , but you know you are FAT.