By way2gosam - 26/05/2009 04:52 - United States
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Okay, I'm finally writing back to all 401 of your comments. Yes, I am a pregnant teenager- although, I can not see how that has any revelance to my post, pregnancy in teenagers happens quite often and I do not appreciate the judgemental/negative comments being thrown at me. It's pure slander. Yes, the father and I did have a fallout and I will be raising the baby on my own, with the help and support of my family and friends- not to mention he lives in the northern part of the state that I live in, which happens to be 4-5 hours away, even if he wanted to be here for the arrival of our child(which we are expecting to be a girl), he could not make it here on time. Therefore, my mother is my "go'to man", for lack of better words. I also notice you all are saying that he wouldn't want to hold my hand or watch the baby being born, I never said he would be in the delievery room- I simply asked him to keep my company during the scary hours of contractions that were yet to come, until my mother could arrive and take over. Yes, we had previously discussed it, and he had said that if need-be, he would be there. Unfortunately for me, he was speaking pure lies. As for the premature labor I did go into, they did stop it, and I am now on bed rest while taking a medicine called "terbutaline" every 4 hours in order to hold her until full term. (Which is also why I could write my FML, I didn't come home taking care of a baby, I came home on bed rest so I could have my baby at the correct time. I had nothing else to do but write my FML.) I do understand how confusing and misleading my post was, but keep in mind you only get a certain amount of letters to work with when writing your original FML, and by reading this I'm sure you've noticed that I could not elaborate thouroughly with 300 letters as a maximum. I do appreciate your opinions, even though I do not agree with all the statements that were made. Just wanted to explain since there were so many confused people.
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I don't see anything wrong with her wanting her mother or best friend there - she was about to give birth! However, if his reply was simply 'I can't', as the FML implies, how did she know he was eating cornflakes and watching TV? Also, I didn't think switched-on mobiles/cellphones were allowed in hospital wards.
In some hospitals you are aloud your mobile on. While my bestfriend was in labour she was constantly updating her Facebook status about it from her phone. However, that's in Australia...
OP: Wow you sure have a nice friend. He totally should have gone :o|. Congrats though :~) #8: I agree. #13: She could have written this after she had given birth and was HOME.
#15 she ment that you have to have a switched on cellphone to text her friend
He's a jerk, but how old are you to still be using the word crush? Maybe you should stop crushing on him and move on, it's probably better.
I thought cell phones were only forbidden in certain areas of the hospital. Anywho... father's responsibility is to be there with you. Friends enjoy the benefits of the cute baby and hand him/her back to you for cleanup, etc.
Maybe your crush doesn't want to be in a relationship with another man's child when he's still a teenager.
And you have a crush on him why?
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he probably knows you are into him so is avoiding being to close to you incase he gets the position of father figure to your child and is therefore stuck with you and the kid forever, he saved himself from having a fml
Is he the father? If he is, he should be more than a "crush". Sounds like a bad choice to me either way.