By way2gosam - 26/05/2009 04:52 - United States
way2gosam tells us more.
Okay, I'm finally writing back to all 401 of your comments. Yes, I am a pregnant teenager- although, I can not see how that has any revelance to my post, pregnancy in teenagers happens quite often and I do not appreciate the judgemental/negative comments being thrown at me. It's pure slander. Yes, the father and I did have a fallout and I will be raising the baby on my own, with the help and support of my family and friends- not to mention he lives in the northern part of the state that I live in, which happens to be 4-5 hours away, even if he wanted to be here for the arrival of our child(which we are expecting to be a girl), he could not make it here on time. Therefore, my mother is my "go'to man", for lack of better words. I also notice you all are saying that he wouldn't want to hold my hand or watch the baby being born, I never said he would be in the delievery room- I simply asked him to keep my company during the scary hours of contractions that were yet to come, until my mother could arrive and take over. Yes, we had previously discussed it, and he had said that if need-be, he would be there. Unfortunately for me, he was speaking pure lies. As for the premature labor I did go into, they did stop it, and I am now on bed rest while taking a medicine called "terbutaline" every 4 hours in order to hold her until full term. (Which is also why I could write my FML, I didn't come home taking care of a baby, I came home on bed rest so I could have my baby at the correct time. I had nothing else to do but write my FML.) I do understand how confusing and misleading my post was, but keep in mind you only get a certain amount of letters to work with when writing your original FML, and by reading this I'm sure you've noticed that I could not elaborate thouroughly with 300 letters as a maximum. I do appreciate your opinions, even though I do not agree with all the statements that were made. Just wanted to explain since there were so many confused people.
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Show it anywaywhy not ask the dad, you *****! if your having a child w/ mo dad, then **** you! your child will have a terrible life! good day to you ma'am.
i like yourr name :D
maybe he doesn't want to see a slimy baby pop out of his friends overstretched va...
Use your brain, she explained (and honestly that could have been inferred) but you really have to be negative
Is he the father? If he is, he should be more than a "crush". Sounds like a bad choice to me either way.
If he's the father he should be there even if the world was ending!
She said that he's not the father
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Show it anywayjust because you have a child. doesn't always mean that your mom isn't still alive:...? what you talking about dude?
I think they mean mostly cuz she said the word "crush"
there are lots of reasons the father wouldnt be there. he could be dead, gone, prison, it couldve been a rape, or TONS of other things
So I guess you know all the facts hu?
he probably knows you are into him so is avoiding being to close to you incase he gets the position of father figure to your child and is therefore stuck with you and the kid forever, he saved himself from having a fml
Somebody understands his viewpoint lol
Wait, so is he the father or is someone else the father? :/
crush? I am greatly confused by this word in your apparent "FML". Wouldn't you call the baby's father?
To be fair, cornflakes are delicious.
Hmm, best friend = baby's father? Anyway, im sorry to hear :/
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he probably knows you are into him so is avoiding being to close to you incase he gets the position of father figure to your child and is therefore stuck with you and the kid forever, he saved himself from having a fml
Is he the father? If he is, he should be more than a "crush". Sounds like a bad choice to me either way.